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almostheaven
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Look at the other side of it...

08/30/10 06:39 AM

Let's say the state didn't require proof. So when someone who isn't abused is having an affair and wants to get out of a marriage and get to keep everything, they claim abuse, get their spouse jailed on no proof, get the house, the car, the bank account, etc....on no proof. Who's being abused now?

The ones you should be angry at are those that abuse and those that report false abuse. The state didn't cause it, they're only trying to regulate it. But they have to protect BOTH sides in it. Those that falsely yell abuse are as bad as the abusers themselves in that they've made it harder to prove abuse.

And those who have to deal with abuse can't expect the state to do for them what they won't do for themselves. It IS hard to break a cycle and to leave, to tell a lawyer, the police, anyone, when you've been told not to. But if you don't, can't, won't break that cycle, how can you expect anyone (that you haven't reported it to) to help you?

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Char Fox

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Subject	Posted by	Posted on
Is this considered abuse??	connie60	08/27/10 10:55 PM
Re: Is this considered abuse??	connie60	10/26/10 09:00 AM
Re: Is this considered abuse??	javajunkiee	08/28/10 06:06 PM
Re: Is this considered abuse??	connie60	08/28/10 11:29 PM
Re: Is this considered abuse??	finz	08/30/10 11:49 PM
Re: Is this considered abuse??	connie60	09/01/10 06:13 AM
Re: Is this considered abuse??	mcintyremom	08/08/11 12:48 PM
Re: Is this considered abuse??	DedicatedDad	08/09/11 04:04 PM
Re: Is this considered abuse??	mcintyremom	08/10/11 08:16 AM
Re: Is this considered abuse??	RebeccaFein	08/04/11 01:40 PM
Re: Is this considered abuse??	palmel1234	09/03/10 10:09 AM
Re: Is this considered abuse??	almostheaven	09/03/10 11:42 AM
Re: Is this considered abuse??	javajunkiee	08/29/10 01:31 PM
Re: Is this considered abuse??	Maury	08/29/10 12:03 AM
Re: Is this considered abuse??	connie60	08/29/10 10:06 AM
Re: Is this considered abuse??	TomatoFace	10/21/10 12:11 PM
Look at the other side of it...	almostheaven	08/30/10 06:39 AM
Re: Is this considered abuse??	javajunkiee	08/29/10 01:46 PM

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