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Re: Relocating to AZ
      09/17/10 08:53 PM

Depends on the circumstances, and the child.

First, my child sees her father MORE post-move. He saw her 7 hours a week, 3-4 weeks a month. 28 hours tops. He now has 2 weekends with overnights, or double the hours. 5 weeks vacation, versus none. Oh, which for the summer he only opted for 2 of 3, and cancelled one of the two because it couldn't be all fun time.

My child has some behavioral and probably sensory issues. Since moving and being in a household with two adults working as a team, she is vastly improved, with noticeable regressions in behavior following ANY contact with dad.

It is what it is. And yes, had it gone to trial, I had an overwhelming case in my favor. My ex never took his full time from day one, didn't financially support her but accrued major debt to, in part, support an alky druggie unemployed friend. When he filed for bankruptcy on those debts? He used our child to commit bankruptcy fraud.

At trial, his intended witnesses? His first wife, against whom a no contact provision exists for in my divorce, and her boyfriend/baby daddy, the guy she was banging on the side when married to my ex. NOT the parents he lives with, who could actually testify to the relationship between parent and child. The boyfriend pretty much ran my ex's case. My ex, his lawyer got pretty crucified by the law guardian and the wife and boyfriend were strongly urged not to show their faces again relative to our case.

Yea my daughter is infinitely better off here, than there. No question. My ex is a nut who uses our child like an accessory doll for his older kid.

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* Relocating to AZ emelbee3 09/10/10 04:02 PM
. * * Re: Relocating to AZ DeeCan   09/10/10 06:33 PM
. * * Re: Relocating to AZ DedicatedDad   09/10/10 06:21 PM
. * * Re: Relocating to AZ preemiemom   09/14/10 11:15 AM
. * * Re: Relocating to AZ googledad   09/16/10 11:10 PM
. * * Re: Relocating to AZ preemiemom   09/17/10 11:25 AM
. * * Re: Relocating to AZ googledad   09/18/10 12:03 AM
. * * Re: Relocating to AZ preemiemom   09/18/10 07:42 PM
. * * Re: Relocating to AZ googledad   09/20/10 06:51 AM
. * * Re: Relocating to AZ emelbee3   09/20/10 07:05 AM
. * * Re: Relocating to AZ googledad   09/20/10 07:16 AM
. * * Re: Relocating to AZ emelbee3   09/20/10 07:55 AM
. * * Re: Relocating to AZ Miranda   09/20/10 08:28 AM
. * * Re: Relocating to AZ Sherron   09/20/10 08:39 AM
. * * Re: Relocating to AZ emelbee3   09/20/10 10:41 AM
. * * Re: Relocating to AZ Runswithscissors   10/05/10 08:08 AM
. * * Re: Relocating to AZ Concerned_Dad   04/10/11 08:28 PM
. * * Re: Relocating to AZ DeeCan   09/22/10 06:14 PM
. * * Re: Relocating to AZ DedicatedDad   09/18/10 11:48 PM
. * * Re: Relocating to AZ preemiemom   09/19/10 07:10 AM
. * * Re: Relocating to AZ DedicatedDad   09/19/10 07:24 AM
. * * Re: Relocating to AZ preemiemom   09/19/10 07:50 AM
. * * Did anyone just look up move away laws? Miranda   09/19/10 09:14 AM
. * * Re: Relocating to AZ Miranda   09/17/10 05:33 PM
. * * Re: Relocating to AZ DedicatedDad   09/17/10 06:21 PM
. * * Re: Relocating to AZ DedicatedDad   09/17/10 04:56 PM
. * * Re: Relocating to AZ preemiemom   09/17/10 08:53 PM
. * * Re: Relocating to AZ DeeCan   09/17/10 02:48 PM
. * * Re: Relocating to AZ DedicatedDad   09/16/10 04:52 PM

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