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Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'...
      10/03/10 11:59 AM

You don't need to talk to anyone on base.

You need a civilian lawyer there where you and your children live. GA may require you to stay there simply so he can exercise visitation - not just in an instance of 50-50 custody. If he were to transfer or move - or consent - after the divorce was over you could move back to Maryland.

You will not get BAH in a divorce - his CS and (if awarded) alimony will include that as a part of his income. Assuming you get custody - you will get CS. You MAY get alimony, but if I am reading it right - you've only been unemployed due to his military service for 4 years? And he's an E-4? Alimony is a toss up. He doesn't make much and you weren't kept out of the job force that long. Not to mention your kids are school age so there is no reason that you can't have a job now. I would say alimony is a long shot. They have to leave him enough money to live on and as an able-bodied adult they expect you to provide for yourself and your children.

The state of GA (and most states) have a calculator to calculate child support. But if memory serves your income is a factor - which should be at a minimum - full time at minimum wage.

It would be nearly impossible for you to obtain a divorce in MD without his consent. One - you have to wait a year. He would be advised during that time that he has to pay you ALOT of money or file for divorce in GA (thus forcing your return), which since things are not friendly I would bet he would do just that.

Your best bet would be to get a lawyer and a job where you are now. Then get a place to live. And wait for either court or you two to hash out an agreement.

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* Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet 10/02/10 12:27 PM
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. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... Miranda   10/02/10 02:51 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   10/02/10 06:01 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   10/02/10 06:08 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... DedicatedDad   10/03/10 10:04 AM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   10/03/10 10:20 AM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... elliesmom   10/03/10 11:59 AM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   10/03/10 01:07 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... DedicatedDad   10/03/10 09:02 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... DedicatedDad   10/04/10 05:57 AM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... Miranda   10/04/10 08:54 AM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... DedicatedDad   10/04/10 10:40 AM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   10/04/10 02:32 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... matart1   10/05/10 09:25 AM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   10/05/10 11:27 AM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   10/05/10 01:20 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... Miranda   10/05/10 02:14 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... Miranda   10/05/10 02:00 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   10/05/10 02:04 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... DedicatedDad   10/05/10 02:42 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   10/05/10 07:48 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... Miranda   10/05/10 08:22 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   10/05/10 10:10 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... finz   10/07/10 09:37 AM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   10/17/10 12:50 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... Miranda   10/18/10 03:51 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   11/28/10 07:25 AM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   11/28/10 07:29 AM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... Miranda   11/28/10 09:13 AM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   11/28/10 12:32 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... Miranda   11/28/10 02:08 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   11/29/10 01:30 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... Miranda   10/05/10 02:12 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   10/04/10 02:39 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... elliesmom   10/04/10 03:02 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   10/04/10 03:55 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... Miranda   10/04/10 04:00 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   10/04/10 04:05 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... finz   10/04/10 09:41 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   10/05/10 08:03 AM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... Miranda   10/05/10 09:16 AM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... Redlegg   10/04/10 04:46 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   10/04/10 06:43 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... DedicatedDad   10/04/10 08:19 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... Miranda   10/04/10 07:54 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... elliesmom   10/03/10 02:33 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   10/03/10 03:36 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... DedicatedDad   10/03/10 06:49 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... Miranda   10/03/10 11:55 AM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... matart1   10/03/10 08:22 AM

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