haventstartedyet
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Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'...
10/03/10 01:07 PM
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He will consent to a divorce in MD. His family lives in MD, so he could stay with them if he had to come for court. Also, I have heard that things that need to be discussed can be done over the phone(speakerphone). A friend of mine a few years back divorced her military cheating husband & they were able to have the attorney/lawyers talk over speakerphone to come to an agreement about things(this was due to the distance). If I stayed in GA it would be like I was being thrown out into the cold with nowhere to go...but at the same time I cannot stay here with an abusive scary man threatening to leave us with no money to live on at all. When you say 'force your return' if he filed in GA...how would I be forced to return & why when I feel threatened by him...and again with nowhere to stay? Let's say he agreed to everything(child support, alimony, visitation rights, etc..),which he just might to get it all over with & signed all the papers? I think if everything was spelled out for him & showed what exactly would happen, he may just agree. To know my husband is to know his complete laziness about most things & let's say he came home & never filed for divorce even knowing he had to pay money during the year I was in MD before I could actually file? Honestly, I do not want this to be difficult if it doesn't have to be. I am hoping for this to go as smooth as it can considering the situation. I want to begin working in MD if that is where I'll be living. Getting a job here to turn around and have to leave is not good & who would hire me knowing that I would only be there for a certain amount of time? This is why I want to start over in the state of MD where I will be living. Please understand even with a job, if I am not supported by my husband(if he refused to pay)I would in no way be able to afford a place of my own & supporting 2 children. There has to be options for me to be able to stay in MD, right? If he completely consents to me moving to MD, what would happen in that instance?
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