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Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'...
      10/03/10 02:33 PM

You would still need to get divorced in GA.

MD is very clear - you have to live there for a year. Neither of you have done that.

If I were you - I would not want to just trust him and move there and wait. Because if he files in GA the judge could (and probably would if he asked) order the children returned to GA. I would not bet my children that he wouldn't do that. He and his new shackup honey could end up with your kids.

The smart thing to do is get a job, get a lawyer, etc. Your kids are in school. A judge will not understand why you have no job. Take care of your affairs in GA and then move to MD and restart your life there. Divorce is a long a process unless everyone agrees and files the paperwork together. You need to be prepared in case he decides to be a pill. He could get a new girlfriend who thinks you deserve nothing and propels him to do all sorts of things.

Obviously yes - you would up and quit when your divorce is over and move to MD, but you have to eat in the mean time. The court will not look kindly upon someone who has no job and is not disabled or caring for a young (non-school aged) child. Your husband is an E-4 not the lottery. He gets to keep enough of his pay to support himself. He has to HELP you (not do it alone) support the kids.

My husbands divorce took 3 years. That is unusual, but you must consider that has a possiblity and plan your "for right now" accordingly. He is coming home in November - you need at LEAST one paycheck to get your own rental place. You have no time to waste here.

Talk to a GA lawyer. He may advise you that you can file in GA, move to MD, and come back for court depending on the strength of your case. Certainly allowing his family time with the kids would strengthen your position that a MD move would not alienate him from his kids.

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* Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet 10/02/10 12:27 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... Bjay   10/02/10 04:28 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... Miranda   10/02/10 02:51 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   10/02/10 06:01 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   10/02/10 06:08 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... DedicatedDad   10/03/10 10:04 AM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   10/03/10 10:20 AM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... elliesmom   10/03/10 11:59 AM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   10/03/10 01:07 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... DedicatedDad   10/03/10 09:02 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... DedicatedDad   10/04/10 05:57 AM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... Miranda   10/04/10 08:54 AM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... DedicatedDad   10/04/10 10:40 AM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   10/04/10 02:32 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... matart1   10/05/10 09:25 AM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   10/05/10 11:27 AM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   10/05/10 01:20 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... Miranda   10/05/10 02:14 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... Miranda   10/05/10 02:00 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   10/05/10 02:04 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... DedicatedDad   10/05/10 02:42 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   10/05/10 07:48 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... Miranda   10/05/10 08:22 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   10/05/10 10:10 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... finz   10/07/10 09:37 AM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   10/17/10 12:50 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... Miranda   10/18/10 03:51 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   11/28/10 07:25 AM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   11/28/10 07:29 AM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... Miranda   11/28/10 09:13 AM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   11/28/10 12:32 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... Miranda   11/28/10 02:08 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   11/29/10 01:30 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... Miranda   10/05/10 02:12 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   10/04/10 02:39 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... elliesmom   10/04/10 03:02 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   10/04/10 03:55 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... Miranda   10/04/10 04:00 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   10/04/10 04:05 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... finz   10/04/10 09:41 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   10/05/10 08:03 AM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... Miranda   10/05/10 09:16 AM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... Redlegg   10/04/10 04:46 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   10/04/10 06:43 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... DedicatedDad   10/04/10 08:19 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... Miranda   10/04/10 07:54 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... elliesmom   10/03/10 02:33 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   10/03/10 03:36 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... DedicatedDad   10/03/10 06:49 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... Miranda   10/03/10 11:55 AM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... matart1   10/03/10 08:22 AM

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