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Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'...
      10/04/10 06:43 PM

I do have POA...as a matter of fact tomorrow I am going over to get copies of his LES's for the last year of so, just so I have a basis to see where his income is before deployment & during because his income will drop once he's back(I have to do it this way because he has changed the MyPay pswds. & will not tell me what they are & I can no longer access the LES's myself online(I could get them before he changed the pswd.'s because of POA for those that want to start hollering about that)...of course, this just shows me he is really hiding his spending from me & who knows what else). Alright, so now it sounds like I can get BAH as long as we are still married & not divorced. Redlegg, thank u for clearing up a bit of the confusion I had over the BAH issue. I had been reading all over this site about the BAH which is what made me ask in the first place. I seriously was unaware of being able to get that. In ref. to the BAH, do I need to speak to his commander about that to be sure it's enforced? I have never spoken to my husband's 'higher-ups' & I have no intention of getting him into any kind of trouble or bashing him or what have you? I will be visiting the housing office to let them know I intend to vacate by the end of the month(should I do that?). Without letting anyone here know I'm leaving, how would anyone know to give me the BAH? I know for a fact if I informed my husband of the BAH thing, he will not voluntarily give me the money even if he knows he is supposed to...it will need to be enforced another way. I just need to know who do I talk to to make sure that it goes the way it is supposed to? Thanks again.

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* Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet 10/02/10 12:27 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... Bjay   10/02/10 04:28 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... Miranda   10/02/10 02:51 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   10/02/10 06:01 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   10/02/10 06:08 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... DedicatedDad   10/03/10 10:04 AM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   10/03/10 10:20 AM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... elliesmom   10/03/10 11:59 AM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   10/03/10 01:07 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... DedicatedDad   10/03/10 09:02 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... DedicatedDad   10/04/10 05:57 AM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... Miranda   10/04/10 08:54 AM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... DedicatedDad   10/04/10 10:40 AM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   10/04/10 02:32 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... matart1   10/05/10 09:25 AM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   10/05/10 11:27 AM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   10/05/10 01:20 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... Miranda   10/05/10 02:14 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... Miranda   10/05/10 02:00 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   10/05/10 02:04 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... DedicatedDad   10/05/10 02:42 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   10/05/10 07:48 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... Miranda   10/05/10 08:22 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   10/05/10 10:10 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... finz   10/07/10 09:37 AM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   10/17/10 12:50 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... Miranda   10/18/10 03:51 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   11/28/10 07:25 AM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   11/28/10 07:29 AM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... Miranda   11/28/10 09:13 AM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   11/28/10 12:32 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... Miranda   11/28/10 02:08 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   11/29/10 01:30 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... Miranda   10/05/10 02:12 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   10/04/10 02:39 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... elliesmom   10/04/10 03:02 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   10/04/10 03:55 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... Miranda   10/04/10 04:00 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   10/04/10 04:05 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... finz   10/04/10 09:41 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   10/05/10 08:03 AM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... Miranda   10/05/10 09:16 AM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... Redlegg   10/04/10 04:46 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   10/04/10 06:43 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... DedicatedDad   10/04/10 08:19 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... Miranda   10/04/10 07:54 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... elliesmom   10/03/10 02:33 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... haventstartedyet   10/03/10 03:36 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... DedicatedDad   10/03/10 06:49 PM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... Miranda   10/03/10 11:55 AM
. * * Re: Husband threatened me from 'over there'... matart1   10/03/10 08:22 AM

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