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Re: Please help, I'm losing it
      10/06/10 12:04 PM

I'm so sorry to hear what you are going through right now. I know how hard it can be when you find out stuff like this. I was 3 months pregnant when I found out my husband (now ex) was cheating on me. He also denied it at first and promised me he would cut off all communication to her. I also confronted the girl too (big mistake) and she also said they were just friends but would stay away. I learned the hard way that people do what is best for them. So, personally as hard as it is, I would stop torchering yourself and not look at anymore of his messages. I would also make sure that he knows that right now that you do not want her any where near your house. As far as the home goes, protect yourself by making sure he refinances the house to take your name off of it. You are still legally responsible for the payments if you are still on the mortgage. (I'm not an attorney, but do know this from past experience).
I would personally start focusing on you and what you want. You will find that the more you confront him on these things, the more you will push him towards her. Again, I learned that the hard way. You sound like a great person and I wish you lots of luck. Just hang in there and remember as hard as it is right now....things will get better. (Again, I'm living proof)And remember you are not alone.

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