Questforlove
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The next chapter in my life (getting a divorce)
10/13/10 04:49 PM
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Hello everyone,
I am what I consider the next chapter in my life. I was married for one year and a half. No children but one dog. =) I am 38 years old. I was with my husband for a total of 5 years and one and a half was married. As of July 2010, he told me he wanted a divorce. He told me we were too different and he fell out of love with me. Well, I was devastated. He explained that my lack of relationship with his bestfriend was hurtful. I had explained that I tried being friends with his bestfriend but everytime his friend was drunk he would curse or try to touch me inappropriately (ex. kick me on my behind or hug me too tight to feel my body) My husband stated his friend was like that with everyone and I am too sensitive. There were other issues like me forcing him to go to therapy for depression issues he had way before me. Well, he continues to go to therapy but has decided to not be married to me. This was heartbreaking. I had planned a life around this man. I cooked everyday, cleaned after him and worked full time. He said he resented me also because we had no sex life. I told him I couldn't have one with someone who continued to argue with me and not make changes. Well, I moved out two weeks ago and he has filed divorce papers this week. I am recooperating. He has been out of the house since July, when he said he wanted a divorce and just left the house. I have recently started dating. To try to defeat the lonliness and the depression. It's difficult in the dating world and I am so scared about what is going to happen with my life. I have moved into a studio with a depressed dog. I continue to work. Wow, this change in life has become so difficult to me. I wanted to have my first child by this age and its not going to happen. I am scared I won't find love, have children or be happy- ever!! I have met one guy after another with so many issues, that are worst than mine. One who was sweet but wanted me to think about a breast reduction ( he told me on our 3rd date) another who lives with his parents and told me he was looking for a girlfriend he can visit at her own apartment while he intends to live with is parents for the next 5 years. I feel so lost and so confused in my life and this point. Anyone who can share their first few months of being seperated from their spouse to feeling better please share! Thank you.
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