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dmarzu
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Re: Not sure what to do

10/16/10 11:50 AM

That's when I woke up and verbalized my frustration. He did not like that. It was MY job to cook, clean, take care of kids while he plays on the weekend. First in our marriage he did help me..he was great. What the heck happened? Birthdays, anniversaries, Christmas you name it...he goes the day of to a store and picks something out for me..nothing I had mentioned I'd like to have etc. Very unthoughtful. But for his secretaries Birthday..he stopped at the store in the am got her a Birthday Card, a balloon, and breakfast parfait and MADE (he is a printer) a little card to put in the B-day card giving her off Friday afternoon with pay. (She was having a graduation party for her son that weekend and could have used the time off to prepare) and he knew this....HOW THOUGHTFUL is that? Nice guy hey. Too bad it wasn't me. Since I verbalized this, very different marriage..I am suppose to keep my mouth shut and be happy. Not happening. I am so unhappy. My kids see this and that upsets me the most. I don't know how to leave. There is 2 small businesses and a home involved. If we go thru the divorce process, he could lose his lively hood (the businesses) his only job ever..never worked for anybody but himself. I don't want that. I don't know what the businesses are worth...the house 300,000. I asked him to buy me out of all 3. 2 businesses and house. He has all for a small amount of 50,000. He can even have the boys with shared visitation. He makes out in the end right? He wont do it. We are both miserable. I don't know what to do.

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Subject	Posted by	Posted on
Not sure what to do	lostnsd	10/14/10 01:54 PM
Re: Not sure what to do	d2njti	10/14/10 04:40 PM
Re: Not sure what to do	CoachKaren	10/14/10 05:31 PM
Re: Not sure what to do	dmarzu	10/16/10 11:38 AM
Re: Not sure what to do	dmarzu	10/16/10 11:50 AM
Re: Not sure what to do	finz	10/17/10 03:17 AM
Re: Not sure what to do	Curt551	10/19/10 01:04 AM
Re: Not sure what to do	blueeyedgal	11/22/10 06:29 PM

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