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Debi
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Re: agressive grandparents
      11/07/10 08:00 AM

i guess I'm a little confused. is this also your fiance's baby? You only refered to him as "my baby" so that makes me guess that he's not? If it is then he absolutely has equal rights in saying who gets to spend time with the child and and you don't get to unilaterally make that decision. What you should do is have a conversation with him and get on the same page.

If this is not also his child then you can do whatever you want. i'd say you should consider putting him in daycare those couple days a week. How can they argue with it if that's what they said they wanted in the first place? At a daycare you are paying for his care so they will do what you tell them to do (within reason and without disruptig all the other kids))

They completely overstepped their bounds by taking him to a Dr without permission, so contact your Dr's office and let them know that no one but you or the childs father will be bringing him to appointments and barring an emergency situation they should not see him without a photo ID.

I doubt they are trying to take your baby. It sounds as if they love him and want to spend time with him also. They need to learn boundries and figure out thatt hey are the grandparents, not the parents. Nothing is going to help if you and your fiance aren't on the same page. Leaving your fiance isn't the answer because as someone else pointed out when he has the child his parents will most likely do the care giving and then you will have even less say over what they do.

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* agressive grandparents confidential1 10/18/10 01:31 PM
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