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Fishergirl
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ex's new job

11/11/10 10:55 AM

This is more of a vent than anything. My ex has never wanted to pay cs. I know, what NPC wants to. I read it all the time. I just didnt think my ex would sink to the lows he has to get out of paying it.

He was fired from his job for stealing a few months ago. It was then discovered that he had been working on the side for years. No biggie I kinda already knew that. Now however his working on the side (totally under the table) has become a full time job (or at least full time for him). He is also giving the kids a HUGE poor me speach all the time. I knew cs would stop which it did. We make it but it is tighter than it was and wow teens sure seem to be spendy lately lol. He took me back to court and lost (meaning he didnt get anything he aked for except for a reduction in cs- whatever he isnt even coming close to the new amount and the judge was mad at him and didnt lower it to what he wanted). I just ended up with a huge lawyer bill. With all this Im trying to just let go and focus on supporting my family whatever he does is his life. Im just frustrated. They are now starting to garnish his unemployment but it is sporatic at best and never the same amount and not even close to his cs amount.

What gets me tho is that my teen daughter came to me asking my opinion. I told her sure. She asked me what I thought about dad working as a door to door funeral salesman. Now I know that the economy is in the crapper but this just seems like a all new low to me. This man has a college degree. Maybe what is bugging me is that he is doing it under the table which makes it feel less honerable to me. Trust me I have done some jobs I hated just to earn money but I was always honest about them. Working with a special needs child at home is not easy as I need to be home for him.

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Subject	Posted by	Posted on
ex's new job	Fishergirl	11/11/10 10:55 AM
Re: ex's new job	MrsB	11/15/10 08:13 PM
Re: ex's new job	Runswithbeer	11/15/10 09:05 PM
Re: ex's new job	Fishergirl	11/15/10 10:54 PM
Re: ex's new job	MrsB	11/16/10 06:09 AM
Re: ex's new job	gr8Dad	11/16/10 06:16 AM
Re: ex's new job	MrsB	11/16/10 08:07 AM
Re: ex's new job	MJenkins	11/17/10 03:43 PM
Re: ex's new job	BeckaLeigh	11/17/10 07:56 PM
Re: ex's new job	MidGround4	11/11/10 04:08 PM
Re: ex's new job	mmn0929	11/15/10 06:34 PM

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