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brokenglass
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I am scared to death
      11/26/10 12:51 PM

My husband is in the USAF. On the 8th of this month, he said he had to run some errands, got in his truck & left. His first sgt. asked me to come see him a few hours later and told me he'd filed for divorce.

I was served the next Saturday w/a summons asking the judge to demand that my children & I (not his kids) leave the house w/our 2 dogs immediately, and that I not be allowed to take anything in our home.

I don't have a penny to my name. I lost my job when he deployed last May b/c I had to be with my children as I'm a nurse and can't work 12 hours a day and leave my kids home alone while they're on summer vacation.

Since then I enrolled in school full time and have been desperately searching for work. But this is Idaho. LPN's aren't in use very much, and our base is 50 miles from the closest city. There are no jobs here.

His 1st Sgt. ordered him to give me money after he was asked to and refused, and he's given me 100.00 since he left.

His lawyer responded to my counterclaim by saying it was frivolous, that I own land (what?? everything is in his name and if I owned land lord knows I would've sold it by now to take care of my kids!) and that I was dishonest and thus should be ordered to pay all of his legal fees and associated expenses. I can't even buy food for my kids!

I don't understand what's happening, and I'm scared. Legal aid won't help me b/c domestic violence is not involved. Pro bono attorneys won't help me because they include my husband's income and I make too much for them to help.

I don't know what to do.

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* I am scared to death brokenglass 11/26/10 12:51 PM
. * * Re: I am scared to death Miranda   11/26/10 01:35 PM
. * * Re: I am scared to death brokenglass   11/26/10 02:02 PM
. * * Re: I am scared to death Miranda   11/26/10 02:16 PM
. * * Re: I am scared to death brokenglass   11/26/10 02:52 PM
. * * Re: I am scared to death brokenglass   11/26/10 04:33 PM
. * * Re: I am scared to death Miranda   11/26/10 05:15 PM
. * * Re: I am scared to death brokenglass   11/26/10 09:53 PM
. * * Re: I am scared to death Miranda   11/26/10 10:41 PM
. * * Re: I am scared to death brokenglass   11/26/10 11:39 PM
. * * Re: I am scared to death Miranda   11/27/10 09:30 AM
. * * Re: I am scared to death brokenglass   11/30/10 12:09 AM
. * * Re: I am scared to death Miranda   11/30/10 07:59 AM
. * * Re: I am scared to death Redlegg   11/27/10 05:30 AM

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