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nolonger
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Re: Hi...

12/02/10 12:10 PM

Welcome. This may not be the right place for you to find friendship, especially on the abuse forum. You may find good advice, bad advice and totally off the wall comments from those who intend to harm. Just a FYI.

What holds you back from divorce? I was married in 1993, had 4 kids and can say, too, that I should have left the first time we broke up in 1989.

Well 15 years later and it's much harder to leave. What held me back was the kids. I couldn't break their heart and our family.

Until he started being abusive with the kids in the same room. Then I knew it was far worse for me to stay and they witness the abuse of their mother.

It was far more difficult than I thought but looking back, it all made me stronger.

If divorce is what you want, do your homework. Be prepared. Expect the worst and worse than that. Keep safe and have a plan for any scenario. Leaving is the most dangerous time for a woman.

But you will get through it. There is light at the end of the tunnel and new life beyond that.

Make the most of it if you get out. And keep your chin up. Tell yourself how beautiful you are inside and out and forget his lies.

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Subject	Posted by	Posted on
Hi...	neveragain71	11/30/10 07:16 AM
Re: Hi...	yregna	12/22/10 05:39 PM
Re: Hi...	Maury	12/22/10 08:17 PM
Re: Hi...	english7	12/23/10 10:54 AM
Re: Hi...	Maury	12/23/10 10:56 AM
Re: Hi...	nolonger	12/27/10 05:43 AM
Re: Hi...	jaiye	01/04/11 10:12 PM
Re: Hi...	english7	01/05/11 09:45 AM
Re: Hi...	patty7	03/04/13 09:53 PM
Re: Hi...	BeachBabeRN	03/05/13 06:14 PM
Re: Hi...	nolonger	01/11/11 02:34 PM
Re: Hi...	Maury	01/13/11 10:21 AM
Re: Hi...	english7	01/14/11 07:39 PM
Re: Hi...	Maury	01/17/11 09:29 AM
Re: Hi...	english7	01/17/11 10:54 AM
Re: Hi...	Maury	01/17/11 12:25 PM
Re: Hi...	english7	01/17/11 01:16 PM
Re: Hi...	nolonger	01/17/11 09:41 AM
Re: Hi...	Maury	01/17/11 09:45 AM
Re: Hi...	nolonger	01/17/11 09:51 AM
Re: Hi...	english7	12/23/10 11:10 AM
Re: Hi...	nolonger	12/02/10 12:10 PM
Re: Hi...	Rosie0159	01/23/11 07:24 PM

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