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Re: Duh...need to figure this out
      12/09/10 03:07 PM

Great post KG and I seem to recall asking some of these same questions to Pokey also --

I hope that I conveyed a similar message to this poster, having been on both sides of this equation. My ex never bothered to do anything remotely close to what this poster is doing though --

It's really important mike, that you and your GF have things that are just for the two of you -- whether it's a favorite bar for a drink, a favorite restaurant that you'll go to any time -- and your ex can't be intruding, either by text or by phone ALL THE TIME. She **your ex** surely doesn't need to consult you for every little thing, does she? Or is that what she's doing?

I'd love to hear your GF's side of this --

What KG proposes is a good thought -- if the family were still intact, would your financial decisions be the same? And if they're not, why should they be different outside this marriage?????

I'd also like to know in exactly what way is your GF not respecting your ex -- can you provide a specific or specifics that you may have recently experienced?

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* Duh...need to figure this out mikec73 12/02/10 12:53 AM
. * * Re: Duh...need to figure this out KiwiGirl   12/09/10 02:48 PM
. * * Re: Duh...need to figure this out BeachBabeRN   12/09/10 03:07 PM
. * * Re: Duh...need to figure this out mikec73   12/09/10 08:25 PM
. * * Re: Duh...need to figure this out mikec73   12/09/10 08:36 PM
. * * Re: Duh...need to figure this out finz   12/09/10 09:22 PM
. * * Re: Duh...need to figure this out mikec73   12/10/10 02:58 AM
. * * Re: Duh...need to figure this out BeachBabeRN   12/10/10 08:00 AM
. * * Re: Duh...need to figure this out english7   12/11/10 10:46 AM
. * * Re: Duh...need to figure this out KiwiGirl   12/11/10 12:49 PM
. * * Re: Duh...need to figure this out Debi   12/03/10 11:11 PM
. * * Re: Duh...need to figure this out BeachBabeRN   12/04/10 07:05 PM
. * * Re: Duh...need to figure this out mikec73   12/06/10 09:47 PM
. * * Re: Duh...need to figure this out bmjmema   01/01/11 03:24 AM
. * * Re: Duh...need to figure this out BeachBabeRN   12/07/10 08:04 AM
. * * Re: Duh...need to figure this out DramaMama   12/07/10 10:27 PM
. * * Re: Duh...need to figure this out Debi   12/12/10 07:17 PM
. * * Re: Duh...need to figure this out finz   12/08/10 01:43 AM
. * * Re: Duh...need to figure this out mikec73   12/08/10 09:13 PM
. * * Re: Duh...need to figure this out Redlegg   12/08/10 07:41 AM
. * * Re: Duh...need to figure this out finz   12/08/10 08:19 AM
. * * Re: Duh...need to figure this out finz   12/07/10 08:00 AM
. * * Re: Duh...need to figure this out bacall   12/02/10 08:55 AM
. * * Re: Duh...need to figure this out d2njti   12/02/10 11:49 AM

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