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english7
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Re: My court hearing

12/16/10 09:49 PM

Let me give you another perspective--one you obviously have no experience with or lack the trust to even consider: In my first marriage, we would drive, with the kids in the back seat, to the bank every Thursday to deposit our paychecks into the same account. A certain amount went into savings, the rest into checking. Then we'd go out to dinner.

It worked extremely well b/c we trusted each other. I paid the bills, kept the account up to date. I told him how much our savings had grown. We each had our ATM cards for personal expenditures. If either of us wanted to buy something over a certain amount, we discussed it.

Both my first ex and I still say to this day that money was NEVER a problem in our marriage. He tells our daughters that I did a very good job managing our money. I tell them that I could always count on their dad to "put out" for their needs. It worked. It would not have mattered whose name was on the account.

In my 2nd marriage, I knew not having at least a joint account was not right. I was working toward that. I hadn't had that many paychecks--hadn't made so much that I would have been financially independent anyway.

I do take responsibility for my choices. But I was not the only one who made bad decisions. I put my trust in him. Isn't that an important element in marriage? At least it didn't take me too long to learn he was not trustworthy.

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