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Re: My court hearing
      12/16/10 10:27 PM

If money was an issue for the moment you married, I'm surprised it lasted 13 months. I don't understand why a sane person with solid self esteem wouldn't refuse to hand over their checks. I'd have my own account. When he got weird on giving me shopping money, I'd have my own job and he'd be sleeping on the couch.

It just seems like every step og the way, you could have made better choices and now expect him to pay you back for both his and your mistakes.

You quit a job and moved to be with him. I believe he should have given you some very brief spousal support so that you could move out and get your own place and start the job search.

I don't understand AT ALL why you didn't file to get a few grand to get you on your feet when you were leaving. Sleeping on someone's floor/couch for months and then moving into a crack house doesn't seem like behavior that should be rewarded with a $50,000 payday to me.

It seems like if you had just moved out, filed for divorce, put your living expenses on the credit card and gotten a job, in the final divorce settlement he would have been made to pay some of those expenses and this would all just be an unpleasant memory.

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