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elliesmom
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Re: My court hearing

12/17/10 09:01 AM

I stayed out of this (not because as gr8dad implied I am "afraid") but because when you first came here you did not like what Miranda and I were telling you.

Your marriage was too short for you to get anything that even resembles what you are asking for. Bad behavior on his part doesn't not mean money for you. That his bad behavior made your decisions go from "risky" to "very Bad idea" does not equal compensation for you.

You should get (and even this is a MAYBE because the marriage was so short) a little bit of money to help you get on your feet. Like maybe 5k to pay for your move and deposit on a rental. You weren't out of the workforce - at all - it sounds so I doubt you will get any equalization in income. You taught in NY, you taught in VA, and now you are teaching in NY again. Changes in income can easily be attributed to changes in the economy. They aren't going to force him to compensate you for that.

If you in fact invested in a new roof for his home - what ever value the home increased during that 13 month time you deserve half of. Of course you will have to hire an appraiser to determine what the value was before and then 13 months after. Unfortunately with the housing collapse - your investment may be worthless.

And frankly - no judge is going to find your fear of him believable when you have pursued him legally this hard. Most people want OUT. I will not argue the validity of that with you - I accept that what you say is true. But to a bystander - I will tell you it seems suspicious. And that is exactly who you have to convince. But we shall see. I can't imagine a judge reversing himself ordering retro temp support. They just don't do that.

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Forgiveness is...letting go of the hope that the past can be changed.

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