english7
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Re: My court hearing
12/17/10 01:56 PM
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"An opportunity to move on and gain closure would not include dragging out a divorce for three years . . ."
Again, I did not drag out the divorce. Repeat, I did not drag out the divorce. Why does everyone think I dragged it out? I had no funds to proceed. I tried to get free legal help. I talked to 4 lawyers, but could not afford their fees. After one year, he filed. I had to borrow money from my dad in a short time to get a lawyer to answer it. I did not want to ask him or anyone for money, but I had no choice at that point. The rest I've already explained. He deployed, twice. He could have come back to answer our request for temporary support, but he didn't want to. He went on a diving vacation, instead, and did not even ask his CO if he could take leave. Didn't I already tell you this? But you seem bent on blaming me for the whole thing taking so long.
"If you are so scared that you are hiding in parking lots for days I don't see how pi$$ing this violent man off further would be a smart thing to do. Different strokes for different folks I guess... "
Now, everyone knows what he did. The judge in VA did not give him a free pass on his behavior. He was actually very compassionate toward me when I explained what happened. If he came around me and threatened me in any way, I'd surely be able to get an order of protection, especially in NY. I am not in a military town anymore, and police and courts around here will not protect him. The police here know of my fears. The judge here knows. I am definitely safer here.
Are you suggesting that I WANT him to come near me?
"Different strokes..."
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