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Re: My court hearing
      12/18/10 04:19 PM

[quote]...It's not uncommon that a person experiencing abuse will put up with the effects of it on him- or herself, but will draw the line at the violence spilling over onto other members of the household, even if it's "just" a cat. There is a sense of needing to protect others from it... that sense isn't always there for yourself. [/quote]

I can attest to that. You put up with more against yourself because you figure that you'll either a) find a way out eventually, or b) you'll find a way to stop it. When the abuse is directed elsewhere, essentially because the abuser is pissed at you, you wake the hell up and head for the hills. Threats against family members, friends and family pets are classic ways to keep someone in line. I've had a cat killed, a dog shot, and a gf threatened with rape by my abuser. Its amazing how the first thing in your mind isn't a logical "how can I stay put and still protect myself & everyone around me", but more a "I'm getting the hell out of here before he gets worse".

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