
finz
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Re: My court hearing
12/18/10 06:54 PM
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Red.......I know she couldn't take legal action AFTER he was deployed and had the military block, but that was over a year after she moved out. That is plenty of time, in my opinion, to take action......especially knowing he could be deployed at any time, I would have put a rush on it.
E7......How many notebooks you filled about what you tried is kind of a moot point. You believe you tried everything. I do not believe that. I believe there had to be a way to end it in a timely manner. You have your reasons why, say, you chose not to get more credit and get a good lawyer immediately and include a repayment of your legal fees by ex with the divorce decree. Whatever your excuses are, they are just that. That solution might have worked and you didn't try it. That's not HIS fault.
I don't know the specific legalities around the issue, but I might have tried to recoup the $7000 spent on bettering his roof/house or money that was yours that he invested. Those issues, I think would be reasonable. I don't think $50,000 for SS is reasonable. That's just my opinion.
Maybe the judge will agree with you. I just don't think that's right.
I'm not expecting that you will change your mind after reading this, but I do feel your 'opposition' in this thread have brought up valid points that I think you should CONSIDER (and not immediately dismiss because you think someone is an a$$h). The judge might think like the a$$h.
As an addendum, I think the whole "I'll send some of you ALL of the info" bit is immature and irrational. I'm not suggesting that you now post it all. If you feel it should remain private, then it should be private. It does make this whole thread rather silly. Why look for peoples' opinion on the matter when they only have part of the info and then complain because they don't see it your way ?
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