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Debi
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Re: Child Support Modification?

12/23/10 10:14 AM

"He has not been able to afford to file divorce until just recently."
-----> He has not WANTED to file for divorce until recently. it doesn't take 12 years to be able to file for divorce even if you have to do it Pro Se.

Their mother lied when she filed for child support, saying that he wasn't supporting his kids (but they had a joint account that she would empty every one of his paydays...and we can pull the bank statements on that one).
-----> If they are married it's her money too. I'm sure he has bank statements but she probably has records showing she was paying house hold bills and taking care of the kids with that money. Even if she was spending it on herself they ARE MARRIED. There is nothing legally dishonest about that. Apparently he did not do enough to prove that he was supporting the kids when the order was issued.

"His daughters from his marriage are almost 18. My question is, due to the fact that he has one more child, can he get his child support modified?"
----> Probably but how close to 18 are they? The arrears are not going to be dropped or changed even if the base CS is lowered, and being that there are 2 of them it's probably not going to go down by much. He also needs to take into consideration his income then from now. If it's gone up credit for another child could even make it a wash.

----> If all the money is CS and she is getting assistance she is not doing anything "fraudulant". The state KNOWS how much money to the penny she gets from him. If she still qualifies it's on the up and up. In some states CS is not counted for ALL assistance. The CS I receive is not taken into account for daycare assistance, only what I make. When I was unemployed for 9 months I lived on my 401K and didn't apply for foodstamps until my UE ran out (that was before you could get UE for 5 freaking years with all of the extensions) and was asked why I didn't apply sooner. The 401K would not have been considered "income". So my question is....Can you prove she is committing fraud anywhere? I'm guessing not. It's just sour grapes and you don't want to admit you are the one who has made a bad choice in a man.

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When we were together, you said you'd die for me. Now, I think it's time you kept your promise.

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Child Support Modification?	MamaK	12/22/10 07:59 AM
Re: Child Support Modification?	ssmom79	12/23/10 09:36 PM
Re: Child Support Modification?	javajunkiee	12/23/10 09:56 PM
Re: Child Support Modification?	M5M5	12/24/10 12:38 AM
Re: Child Support Modification?	Debi	12/23/10 10:14 AM
Re: Child Support Modification?	DedicatedDad	12/23/10 10:37 AM
Re: Child Support Modification?	Debi	12/25/10 12:22 PM
Re: Child Support Modification?	DedicatedDad	12/25/10 07:31 PM
Re: Child Support Modification?	Debi	12/26/10 10:00 AM
Re: Child Support Modification?	DedicatedDad	12/26/10 02:39 PM
Re: Child Support Modification?	Debi	12/27/10 11:01 AM
Re: Child Support Modification?	1966Gal	12/23/10 09:59 AM
Re: Child Support Modification?	1966Gal	12/23/10 09:56 AM
Re: Child Support Modification?	MamaK	12/23/10 01:55 PM
Re: Child Support Modification?	Goodmom	12/23/10 07:45 PM
Re: Child Support Modification?	Miranda	12/23/10 02:03 PM
Re: Child Support Modification?	Goodmom	12/22/10 09:13 PM
Re: Child Support Modification?	1966Gal	12/23/10 09:54 AM
Re: Child Support Modification?	googledad	12/22/10 09:05 PM
Re: Child Support Modification?	Miranda	12/22/10 08:16 AM
Re: Child Support Modification?	MamaK	12/22/10 08:23 AM
Re: Child Support Modification?	MamaK	12/22/10 08:25 AM
Re: Child Support Modification?	Miranda	12/22/10 09:18 AM
Re: Child Support Modification?	MamaK	12/22/10 09:36 AM
Re: Child Support Modification?	Miranda	12/23/10 10:59 AM
Re: Child Support Modification?	MamaK	12/23/10 01:42 PM
Re: Child Support Modification?	Goodmom	12/23/10 07:40 PM
Re: Child Support Modification?	gr8Dad	12/23/10 07:44 PM
Re: Child Support Modification?	Goodmom	12/23/10 07:49 PM
Re: Child Support Modification?	gr8Dad	12/23/10 07:56 PM
Re: Child Support Modification?	Goodmom	12/23/10 08:16 PM
Re: Child Support Modification?	Miranda	12/23/10 09:29 PM
Re: Child Support Modification?	Goodmom	12/24/10 05:14 AM
Re: Child Support Modification?	gr8Dad	12/23/10 08:37 PM
Re: Child Support Modification?	finz	12/24/10 04:41 AM
Re: Child Support Modification?	javajunkiee	12/23/10 09:55 PM
Re: Child Support Modification?	1966Gal	12/24/10 01:43 PM
Re: Child Support Modification?	javajunkiee	12/25/10 07:22 PM
Re: Child Support Modification?	SRS	12/24/10 02:24 PM
Re: Child Support Modification?	gr8Dad	12/23/10 10:26 PM
Re: Child Support Modification?	javajunkiee	12/23/10 10:34 PM
Re: Child Support Modification?	gr8Dad	12/23/10 01:47 PM
Re: Child Support Modification?	Miranda	12/23/10 02:19 PM
Re: Child Support Modification?	gr8Dad	12/23/10 02:24 PM
Re: Child Support Modification?	Miranda	12/23/10 02:27 PM
Re: Child Support Modification?	gr8Dad	12/23/10 02:28 PM
Re: Child Support Modification?	Miranda	12/23/10 03:06 PM
Re: Child Support Modification?	gr8Dad	12/23/10 04:32 PM
Re: Child Support Modification?	Miranda	12/23/10 06:49 PM
Re: Child Support Modification?	gr8Dad	12/23/10 07:32 PM
Re: Child Support Modification?	Sherron	12/23/10 02:44 PM
Re: Child Support Modification?	MamaK	12/23/10 01:50 PM
Re: Child Support Modification?	Miranda	12/22/10 12:54 PM
Re: Child Support Modification?	DedicatedDad	12/22/10 09:50 AM
Re: Child Support Modification?	MamaK	12/22/10 10:09 AM
Re: Child Support Modification?	DedicatedDad	12/22/10 07:01 PM
Re: Child Support Modification?	MamaK	12/23/10 01:47 PM
Re: Child Support Modification?	M5M5	12/23/10 03:29 PM
Re: Child Support Modification?	Sherron	12/23/10 03:54 PM

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