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jcham
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Re: how to adjust
      01/07/11 04:53 PM

I am trying to adjust any way I can. The first 4 months I dont remember sleeping in our bed, I washed my hair with our sons shampoo for 6 months, took the ring on took it off, put the pictures up, took them down, I watch a lot of movies, try to be as social as I can with who ever I can but people get burnt out as I am always talking about it, it seems nothing else matters. I called a support group today and in reading the web page that got me to this fourm it helped as I have been asking myself the same questions over and over and over again. I'm just trying to adjust any way I can, however I can. Some nights I sleep on the couch, others in my bed, last night I couldnt sleep as my head was still spinning as I am trying to put together a visitation package with my son, I want home visits on the weekends it is whats best for him but ya I couldnt sleep last night. I have a pc in my room and play movies on it and that sometimes helps me, just hearing noise or what ever sometimes helps me sleep. I just dont think there is an easy solution out of all this, the four letter work time and when I hear that all I want to do is break all the clocks in the world. Just want you to know it sucks for me too and I dont know how to adjust and maybe today I dont have to know, maybe today I just have to be miserable and accept it for what it is, I dont know, marriage to me was forever not just a fantastic night under the stars, I wonder if I am alone in this she doesnt seem to care or be bothered with any of this.

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