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jcham
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Re: New here, going through seperation/divorce..

01/08/11 01:22 PM

I keep a movie going on in my bedroom all night, at first I slept in the living room probably for the first 5 months or so, very seldom did I go into my room. Now its been over a year and I still do the movies. I dont think there are any quick fixes for this out there. If you find one let me know, like an atkins diet or something.

Before the wedding we had couples counsling but nothing was ever said about divorce. Never even entered my mind nor did I ever think I would be going through what I have and am going through. I do know that for the last 15 months I have asked why, still I saw her side as well but why. I have to start looking at what is and taking care of that. Regardless of anything and everything I have tried just knowing that I am not alone in this seems to help. People here for the most part have helped me without knowing it. I just read some of the posts and can relate to what they are saying as I am going through some of the same crap. Money, children, not seeing my son, paperwork, legal issues, you name it I'm reading it. I dont know if life goes on...

It's been 15 months and I still feel the same like ((WHY))but one thing that has helped me is my son. He is growing up and changing everytime I see him and the only indication that things have changed is when I look at him. When I visit with him something snaps me back into reality... You mentioned kids watching my son grow has helped keep it real...Sorry for the sleep, some days and nights seem to blur into one another but the movies have helped me something I have seen over and over and over again, it becomes familure and comforting ..

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New here, going through seperation/divorce..	eljones77	12/01/10 09:36 PM
Re: New here, going through seperation/divorce..	newlife2day	12/15/10 09:41 PM
Re: New here, going through seperation/divorce..	jcham	01/08/11 01:22 PM
Re: New here, going through seperation/divorce..	finz	12/06/10 03:11 AM

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