DonMc
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Re: Question for the board...all reponses are welcome
01/12/11 03:31 PM
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Hi JTK,
from a man's perspective, I'm really impressed that you're doing this in the way you and your STBX are, and it seems pretty challenging despite your statement that there's no baggage and everything is fine.
But also as a man, I had the feeling when I read your post that you were moving pretty fast in desiring a new girlfriend. Not just with your living situation, which would be a challenge, but also with your own heart and the healing we all seem to need in the midst of the divorce process. I'm not debating where you're at with it, and, I have to wonder if taking some time to heal wouldn't be a good idea.
I moved too fast myself after being divorced twice, and paid dearly for that impatience. Maybe its different for you, I don't know. So many of my coaching clients have tried the same thing, and so many have suffered in trying to get out there too quickly, rather than get used to the new situation, comfortable with themselves, and start to form a new vision for their lives.
I do wish you well with this, I know it can be a bit tricky within us and outside of us.
All the best,
Don
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