DonMc
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Re: Well?
01/16/11 04:22 PM
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"Well?"is a great lead-in to your letter, my friend. What's next, how do I move on and create a new Me in the midst of this emptiness and vacuum? That was my question too, and finding my way toward that new picture of my Self in relation to my kids, my ex(es) and my life was such a challenge, and, a good one. I now have come to my new relationship, after six+ years of being alone, with a renewed sense of being solid in my own Self. I don't look to her for defining that like I did before, or for sustenance, but for companionship, support, and loving friendship. It's so much better after just sitting with myself for all those years, and rooting out my own inner patterns that got me into relationships that really weren't the best for me from the beginning. My kids are better for it, despite the shock of it all, and they're growing up to be really good people.
Find the space and time to sit with yourself and examine YOU and how whatever patterns helped to blind you to her stuff, as you said, and to somehow not take care of you in the best way possible. That's my advice, for whatever it's worth.
Best wishes,
Don
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