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Re: How long does it take to get child support?
      01/23/11 07:07 PM

I adopted them when they were babies. They are now 25 and 29 years old. And yes, for the state they were adopted in, NJ it was far cheaper for an adoption subsidy to be provided than to pay for institutionization. Now it is SSI instead of the adoption subsidies because of their ages. With assistance supporting them has never been a hardship and I have always just worried about earning enough to support myself so I have never needed to rely on their money for my own needs. Now my daughter is another story. She was supposed to have special needs but she does not. As with most 12 year old girls she is pretty expensive to care for. She has had a horse for over 4 years who has to be boarded, lessons need to be paid for weekly. She is homeschooled so has educational expenses that reoccur frequently. She needs to eat and have clothing. She has a social life. She should not have to sacrifice because dad now wants to be a swinger. I cannot afford an attorney at th moment because he cleared out the bank account. I have to file on my own. At least until child support kicks in. I was hoping for all of our sakes we could do most of the divorce on our own by mutual agrements. But he has now made that impossible. I have never done this before. I guess what I am looking for here is a little guidance. Some suggestions.

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* How long does it take to get child support? debra9591 01/23/11 03:37 PM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? Tweeby   01/24/11 08:45 AM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? debra9591   01/24/11 09:50 AM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? debra9591   01/24/11 09:59 AM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? debra9591   01/24/11 10:05 AM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? Miranda   01/23/11 03:47 PM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? DedicatedDad   01/23/11 06:25 PM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? debra9591   01/23/11 06:43 PM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? Avaya   01/24/11 08:27 AM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? debra9591   01/23/11 06:45 PM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? DedicatedDad   01/23/11 06:50 PM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? debra9591   01/23/11 07:07 PM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? debra9591   01/23/11 07:11 PM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? Miranda   01/23/11 07:13 PM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? SarahLSW   01/23/11 07:28 PM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? Sherron   01/23/11 07:36 PM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? debra9591   01/23/11 07:42 PM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? DedicatedDad   01/23/11 07:48 PM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? debra9591   01/23/11 07:57 PM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? debra9591   01/23/11 07:59 PM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? Avaya   01/24/11 08:34 AM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? Tweeby   01/24/11 08:41 AM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? Avaya   01/24/11 09:40 AM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? Sherron   01/23/11 08:08 PM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? debra9591   01/23/11 08:11 PM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? Sherron   01/23/11 08:15 PM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? debra9591   01/23/11 08:23 PM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? Sherron   01/23/11 08:33 PM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? debra9591   01/23/11 08:55 PM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? Sherron   01/23/11 09:04 PM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? debra9591   01/23/11 09:18 PM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? Debi   01/24/11 10:33 AM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? debra9591   01/24/11 11:21 AM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? Sherron   01/24/11 12:04 PM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? debra9591   01/24/11 12:15 PM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? gr8Dad   01/24/11 12:20 PM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? DedicatedDad   01/24/11 12:26 PM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? debra9591   01/24/11 12:48 PM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? Avaya   01/24/11 01:14 PM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? debra9591   01/24/11 01:24 PM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? debra9591   01/24/11 01:25 PM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? debra9591   01/24/11 01:29 PM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? Avaya   01/24/11 03:01 PM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? finz   01/24/11 04:16 PM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? debra9591   01/24/11 06:04 PM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? debra9591   01/24/11 06:05 PM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? ssmom79   01/25/11 02:30 PM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? debra9591   02/03/11 10:36 PM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? debra9591   04/10/11 10:53 AM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? Sherron   01/24/11 04:46 PM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? debra9591   01/24/11 01:30 PM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? Miranda   01/23/11 09:34 PM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? debra9591   01/23/11 09:55 PM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? Sherron   01/23/11 09:22 PM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? debra9591   01/23/11 08:13 PM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? debra9591   01/23/11 07:40 PM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? Avaya   01/24/11 08:31 AM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? debra9591   01/23/11 07:32 PM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? debra9591   01/23/11 07:24 PM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? debra9591   01/23/11 07:26 PM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? debra9591   01/23/11 07:27 PM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? DedicatedDad   01/23/11 07:33 PM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? Miranda   01/23/11 07:14 PM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? Sherron   01/23/11 07:21 PM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? DedicatedDad   01/23/11 07:27 PM
. * * Re: How long does it take to get child support? debra9591   01/23/11 06:20 PM

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