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Re: Would like to get some input...
03/07/11 12:45 PM
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Walkd, I'm sad to hear of your situation. You're right. DON'T stay for the sake of the kids, but there are things to consider before taking that step. You will be responsible for half of his debt, most likely. He will be unable to afford a place of his own. It may be very hard for the kids to see that and there's always the risk of the kids blaming you. However, those two things, while difficult to accept, are easier than living with a liar that will likely continue his spending behavior since by staying, you will in essance, enable his behavior.
Also, hire a private detective. I don't know a man alive who doesn't need sex. Perhaps his purchases are made while courting other relationships (AKA affairs). Have him followed and make sure that even when he does give in to your nagging for sex, there isn't actually 3 in the bed.
Best wishes. Divorce is really very hard. But there is light at the end of the tunnel and you and your kids will survive.
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