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Annie7676
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Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing?

03/09/11 04:06 PM

I don't think you should dwell on what might happen feeling depressed and sad years later. Some people do that does not mean you will. Some people totally accept that the partner has moved on and doesn't want you anymore and in some ways that is healthier. Many of us hang on and hope beyond hope that the person will come back, change their mind and in most cases they don't.

Yes its sad but it is what it is. It sounds like you are doing well, friends, family, hobbies so continue with those things and take this as a learning experience and a new opportunity to find who you are, what you want and take your time. you have the rest of your life to figure this out.

Divorce is very sad and not a good thing. moving forward is all we can do and only look back to be happy about what you had and feel sad that it ended. As you said it has taught you alot.

If the other partner doesn't want you they don't want you. My X left after a LTM, in retrospect I spent way to much time clinging to the hope he would change his mind, miss me come back....now out of it ...I would have been better off, cutting my losses, clean break and move on.

Thats not to say you wont feel sad and regret but seriously what can you do about it?? NOTHING.

Take care of you in the best way you know how and remember right now is all we have so make the most of it.

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This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing?	Keepenon	03/09/11 01:05 PM
Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing?	Debi	03/18/11 08:49 PM
Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing?	Keepenon	03/21/11 02:46 PM
Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing?	Debi	03/21/11 07:18 PM
Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing?	Keepenon	03/22/11 06:24 AM
Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing?	Debi	03/22/11 09:45 PM
Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing?	Keepenon	03/23/11 09:42 AM
Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing?	Annie7676	03/25/11 02:04 PM
Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing?	Keepenon	03/25/11 02:42 PM
Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing?	yregna	03/29/11 09:48 AM
Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing?	Keepenon	04/04/11 08:56 AM
Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing?	Keepenon	05/27/11 10:40 AM
Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing?	AlisonSmith	09/27/11 05:41 AM
Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing?	Annie7676	03/26/11 06:46 AM
Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing?	Keepenon	03/28/11 06:49 AM
Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing?	Annie7676	03/28/11 03:46 PM
Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing?	Debi	03/24/11 07:47 PM
Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing?	Keepenon	03/25/11 07:26 AM
Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing?	NancyD	03/11/11 09:07 AM
Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing?	Keepenon	03/11/11 09:56 AM
Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing?	selfcare	03/11/11 05:05 PM
Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing?	Keepenon	03/14/11 07:19 AM
Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing?	yregna	03/16/11 02:34 PM
Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing?	Keepenon	03/16/11 02:54 PM
Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing?	Annie7676	03/17/11 05:56 AM
Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing?	Keepenon	03/17/11 08:45 AM
Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing?	yregna	03/18/11 11:34 AM
Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing?	Keepenon	03/18/11 12:59 PM
Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing?	Annie7676	03/09/11 04:06 PM
Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing?	Keepenon	03/09/11 05:03 PM
Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing?	Annie7676	03/10/11 04:43 PM
Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing?	Keepenon	03/11/11 08:36 AM

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