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BeckaLeigh32
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Re: Going through limbo stage of a separation...

04/20/11 05:18 AM

It is possible that she loves you and doesn't want to hurt you by telling you she doesn't want to be with you ever again.

I had that problem with my STBX. I didn't want to be with him but didn't want to hurt him, regardless of how bad he had hurt me. I wanted to work on things, even though I knew it was hopeless. I am hoping this isn't how your wife feels.

And it is possible that there is no hidden agenda behind her words. She could really want to work on it and wants you to prove that you do, too. It is up to you whether you do what she requested or not. If you want this marriage to work, whether you think she will be back or not, you have to work at it. Marriage is hard. You have to zig when you want to zag, bend when you want to be rigid.

I wish you the best of luck. I hope you two work it out. But, remember, communication is key. If you don't hear the words she is saying or typing, she isn't going to want to hear what you are saying.

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Going through limbo stage of a separation...	nuk	04/17/11 10:10 PM
Re: Going through limbo stage of a separation...	stormy1960	05/25/11 04:40 PM
Re: Going through limbo stage of a separation...	nuk	05/29/11 09:45 PM
Re: Going through limbo stage of a separation...	asurvivor	04/19/11 02:53 PM
Re: Going through limbo stage of a separation...	nuk	04/19/11 08:11 PM
Re: Going through limbo stage of a separation...	BeckaLeigh32	04/20/11 05:18 AM
Re: Going through limbo stage of a separation...	Anything4Love	11/01/11 07:41 AM
Re: Going through limbo stage of a separation...	yregna	04/27/11 02:51 PM
Re: Going through limbo stage of a separation...	finz	04/28/11 11:26 PM
Re: Going through limbo stage of a separation...	nuk	04/29/11 02:59 PM
Re: Going through limbo stage of a separation...	finz	05/02/11 06:13 AM
Re: Going through limbo stage of a separation...	psioux	05/16/11 03:51 PM
Re: Going through limbo stage of a separation...	nuk	05/17/11 02:03 PM
Re: Going through limbo stage of a separation...	DigitalNinja	09/21/11 03:46 PM
Re: Going through limbo stage of a separation...	dnvrguy02	07/02/11 06:11 PM
Re: Going through limbo stage of a separation...	nuk	07/05/11 01:19 AM
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