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Re: Uh oh. Someone just came available...
      04/27/11 11:22 PM

Sounds as though you already have the "other guy" penciled in on your schedule. "totally fine. Perfect. For now..." How would you feel if someone said that about you? In addition to that, you are flat-out plotting behind the back of Mr. Perfect? You are sabotaging your current relationship by doing this and that leaves you with this question to ponder; Is it better to tell Mr. Perfect what you have already decided in the near future or let the sabotage grow into conflict, anger and frustration drag on to its ultimate end? I guess wasting a chunk of your life bickering and arguing with Mr. Perfect would get you past "other guys" rebound period! I'm not casting judgement and I mean no ill will. I'm just hopefully giving you a perspective from outside the box. You need to make yourself happy FIRST! Simple but critical. If you aren't happy or often think you could be happier in a different situation, then THAT should be your goal. Sometimes that means others are hurt. Minimize the hurt to others by being honest and sincere and you will minimize any regret in the future. You will be a better person for it as well! I hope it works out well for you. Everyone deserves to be happy.

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* Uh oh. Someone just came available... nolonger 03/27/11 06:10 PM
. * * Re: Uh oh. Someone just came available... DedicatedDad   07/20/11 02:00 PM
. * * Re: Uh oh. Someone just came available... Maury   07/22/11 10:44 PM
. * * Re: Uh oh. Someone just came available... yregna   04/27/11 02:56 PM
. * * Re: Uh oh. Someone just came available... Bummin   04/27/11 11:22 PM
. * * Re: Uh oh. Someone just came available... nolonger   05/14/11 12:28 PM
. * * Re: Uh oh. Someone just came available... Eve   07/04/11 12:46 PM
. * * Re: Uh oh. Someone just came available... yregna   07/20/11 10:42 AM

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