gr8Dad
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Re: Relocation and Legal Action Help!!!!!!!!!!!
05/04/11 11:12 PM
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"with my ex even telling my son he could get a dirtbike out there (which I nixed quickly). The sudden switch is what sent this all into disarray"
Is it possible that the dirtbike issue was what made it clear to him that he would no longer have any say in any issues with the child? What I think you are failing to see is how HE views the situation. You have painted him as an uncaring deadbeat father. But he is undertaking a VERY expensive and VERY emotional process (a custody fight). This is NOT something a person who "doesn't care" does lightly. Also, there is a decent possibility that once you graduated, since new hubby has a job there, and will have established himself, that you will STAY there and not return. Then what does he do? The child's residency will be established, and he will be out of luck.
SO tell me, if HE had custody, and wanted to marry a woman and move thousands of miles away, would YOU be okay with it, or would you fight it? Of COURSE you would fight it.
Now HERE is a pro-active approach. Would you be willing to sign a contract agreeing that if you did NOT return to NJ/NY in two years, that custody automatically transferred to him?
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Why give a "senior" discount, they have had plenty of time to raise the money...
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