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Re: Relocation and Legal Action Help!!!!!!!!!!!
      05/05/11 09:14 AM

Her ex won't pay more in NY because of the move.

It is HIGHLY unlikely he would be required to pay transportation costs.

The "standard" in NY is if there can be a "reasonable replacement" of existing time.

She IS offering that. NY courts don't care if it's 40 hours over the course of one week, or it's 40 hours over th course of 52 weeks. Doesn't matter. Can you reasonably replace the time? Yes. Are you willing to PAY for the transportation? Yes. Are you willing to facilitate the relationship? Yes. Does the child exhibit an uninhibited bond with BOTH parents? Yes. Meaning, does it appear the child is being BLOCKED from one parent (alienated). No.

ALL these things are in her favor. Furthermore, if he is disabled, what happens if something goes wrong and the child stays with him? Is he capable of raising a child 24/7 for two years? That will weigh AGAINST him.

And, again, you're not even talking a PERMANENT move, you're talking a TEMPORARY one. I wouldn't guarantee granting of permission but of what I know of move-away cases, and on Long Island specifically? Yeah, she's got a darn good shot at it.

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. * * Re: Relocation and Legal Action Help!!!!!!!!!!! LexieBelle   05/05/11 09:14 AM
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. * * Re: Relocation and Legal Action Help!!!!!!!!!!! LexieBelle   05/05/11 10:46 AM
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