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Re: Uh oh. Someone just came available...
      05/14/11 12:28 PM

Yes, both of those responses is what I needed to hear. My original post is from Mar 27. Since then, I searched my moral character long and hard, and decided to either stay in or get out. I stayed in and other guy knows and respects this and we have not spoken since. In fact, this little episode got me to "get over" any other possibilities of being "happier".

Which I guess is my point. How do we know what our true happiness is? For me, there's a "for now" happiness and a "forever" happiness. Due to unusual circumstances, they can't be the same for another 8 years.

Is it fair to anyone to not achieve temporary happiness? Is it fair to anyone to hold out for forever happiness that long?

I'm not a selfish person, but I believe in keeping my sanity while selflessly being there for my loved one. A fraction of the equation of my sanity is my temporary happiness. Another fraction of my sanity is to make others in my life feel happy and loved.

I called it a tangled web. Some call it life. Troll calls it lack of moral character. Either way, it's complicated.

Does anyone have a set standard of proceedure post-divorce? Or do people here fly by the winds of change? There is a line we all won't cross. How do we work out the details?

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* Uh oh. Someone just came available... nolonger 03/27/11 06:10 PM
. * * Re: Uh oh. Someone just came available... DedicatedDad   07/20/11 02:00 PM
. * * Re: Uh oh. Someone just came available... Maury   07/22/11 10:44 PM
. * * Re: Uh oh. Someone just came available... yregna   04/27/11 02:56 PM
. * * Re: Uh oh. Someone just came available... Bummin   04/27/11 11:22 PM
. * * Re: Uh oh. Someone just came available... nolonger   05/14/11 12:28 PM
. * * Re: Uh oh. Someone just came available... Eve   07/04/11 12:46 PM
. * * Re: Uh oh. Someone just came available... yregna   07/20/11 10:42 AM

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