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Mossyhorns
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Did dating affect your custody?
      06/03/11 11:08 AM

I am going through my second divorce from the same woman, (yes I married the same woman twice :crazy:) she has battled a pain pill addiction for the last 7 years, our first marraiege ended due to her having an affair. We reconciled with me being under the impression that she was clean, 6 months after our second marriage she was in rehab, and when she got out she left. She came to me after she had been gone for about a month and said she was talking with a lawyer and wanted divorce, I filed, that was early last Febuary. We have two children, 7 and 4, during the last time we were divorced we had equal joint shared custody, we each had the kids a week at a time every other week, but that was not good for the kids in my view after we started doing it, they never really had a home. I have had the kids full time since she moved out, she gets them every other weekend from 6 on Friday evening until 8 Sunday morning, and she has been picking them up from school every Monday and Thursday and bringing them home around 7:30 in the evening. This is strictly verbal to this point, we do not have a court order for this arrangement.

I ran into an old high school friend back in March, we talked and have started seeing each other. Up until about 2 weeks ago we kept it fairly discreet, but I have introduced my children to her in an open "friend" atmoshpere once, and she came over and watched them for me while I mowed the yard last week-end when my STBX decided she did not want them during her designated time short notice. I know it is not good to bring someone into the childrens lives as a new partner soon after a seperation, I know it is horrible to move in with a new partner etc... but I have no plans of doing anything of that sort. Have any of you gone through a similar situation and if so did it actually have any bearing on the custody aspect? If so how?

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* Did dating affect your custody? Mossyhorns 06/03/11 11:08 AM
. * * Re: Did dating affect your custody? movingfwd999   07/04/11 04:07 PM
. * * Re: Did dating affect your custody? SRS   06/03/11 07:32 PM
. * * Re: Did dating affect your custody? signguy   06/04/11 07:14 PM
. * * Re: Did dating affect your custody? DedicatedDad   06/04/11 09:36 PM
. * * Re: Did dating affect your custody? SRS   06/05/11 07:06 AM
. * * Re: Did dating affect your custody? Debi   06/03/11 06:16 PM
. * * Re: Did dating affect your custody? CuriousGeorge   06/03/11 05:44 PM
. * * Re: Did dating affect your custody? Runswithscissors   06/06/11 01:27 AM
. * * Re: Did dating affect your custody? Mossyhorns   06/06/11 07:57 AM
. * * Re: Did dating affect your custody? Debi   06/06/11 10:34 AM
. * * Re: Did dating affect your custody? Mossyhorns   06/06/11 01:22 PM
. * * Re: Did dating affect your custody? SRS   06/11/11 10:27 AM
. * * Re: Did dating affect your custody? BeachBabeRN   06/11/11 10:59 AM
. * * Re: Did dating affect your custody? gr8Dad   06/11/11 12:53 PM
. * * Re: Did dating affect your custody? SRS   06/11/11 02:15 PM
. * * Re: Did dating affect your custody? gr8Dad   06/11/11 02:47 PM
. * * Re: Did dating affect your custody? Sherron   06/11/11 03:15 PM
. * * Re: Did dating affect your custody? gr8Dad   06/11/11 03:42 PM
. * * Re: Did dating affect your custody? Sherron   06/11/11 04:03 PM
. * * Re: Did dating affect your custody? gr8Dad   06/11/11 04:07 PM
. * * Re: Did dating affect your custody? Sherron   06/11/11 04:46 PM
. * * Re: Did dating affect your custody? gr8Dad   06/11/11 05:02 PM
. * * Re: Did dating affect your custody? Sherron   06/11/11 05:11 PM
. * * Re: Did dating affect your custody? gr8Dad   06/11/11 05:30 PM
. * * Re: Did dating affect your custody? Sherron   06/11/11 05:43 PM
. * * Re: Did dating affect your custody? Mossyhorns   06/13/11 10:07 AM
. * * Re: Did dating affect your custody? Mossyhorns   06/13/11 11:18 AM
. * * Re: Did dating affect your custody? Sherron   06/13/11 11:21 AM
. * * Re: Did dating affect your custody? DeeCan   06/11/11 03:51 PM
. * * Re: Did dating affect your custody? gr8Dad   06/11/11 03:53 PM
. * * Re: Did dating affect your custody? DedicatedDad   06/06/11 09:55 AM
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