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Debi
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Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah

06/19/11 10:30 AM

"So how about if they offered to do all of the driving, would that change anything?"

It doesn't change that the whole thing was dishonest. If they are already building a house they KNEW they were building a house when they were in court. They didn't say "BTW, we are moving 20 miles from here and once 50/50 is awarded we will expect BM to do half the driving". Their attorney (the one who said this won't be an issue) told them to keep their mouths shut because he knew they wouldn't win given those circumstances.

Anything that disrupts one parents parenting time is not ok. When you have 50/50 you have more of a responsibility to consider the other parent before you make your plans.

I'm moving in a little over a month. Along with keeping the kids in the same schools how the location would affect my x was a big consideration for the location. It's about a mile further than where I was but actually more convinent for him to get to. He drops the kids at my house before he goes to work on his days and they go to school from there so I would not have moved in a direction that would add a half hour to his morning. (which could easily happen in the city) That would not have been fair.

I agree that the drive time will not impact the kids that much. I spent more time than that on the bus as a child also. That is just not the point. The point is you don't spend all that time in court and a few weeks after you get what you want already have purchased land and plans for a house and gotten to the "ready to build" point 20 miles away. And for the record I'd say the same thing if itwere mom planning to do this.

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Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah	NinaEll	06/18/11 02:01 AM
Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah	SRS	06/19/11 08:15 AM
Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah	Debi	06/19/11 10:31 AM
Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah	Debi	06/18/11 06:22 PM
Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah	gr8Dad	06/18/11 07:31 PM
Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah	Debi	06/19/11 10:30 AM
Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah	dadinva	06/18/11 09:10 PM
Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah	Fishergirl	06/18/11 10:51 PM
Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah	gr8Dad	06/18/11 03:45 PM
Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah	googledad	06/18/11 08:21 AM
Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah	Fishergirl	06/18/11 03:50 PM
Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah	gr8Dad	06/18/11 04:12 PM
Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah	Fishergirl	06/18/11 04:38 PM
Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah	gr8Dad	06/18/11 04:49 PM
Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah	NinaEll	06/20/11 02:20 PM
Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah	Goodmom	06/21/11 05:55 AM
Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah	SRS	06/20/11 05:44 PM
Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah	gr8Dad	06/20/11 06:00 PM
Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah	SRS	06/21/11 06:11 AM
Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah	gr8Dad	06/21/11 11:21 AM
Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah	M5M5	06/21/11 11:33 AM
Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah	Debi	06/21/11 03:19 PM
Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah	M5M5	06/21/11 06:15 PM
Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah	NinaEll	06/21/11 03:57 PM
Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah	SRS	06/21/11 06:40 PM
Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah	gr8Dad	06/21/11 07:09 PM
Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah	SRS	06/21/11 07:33 PM
Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah	LexieBelle	06/22/11 09:20 AM
Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah	Debi	06/22/11 06:51 PM
Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah	LexieBelle	06/23/11 10:17 AM
Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah	greeneyes	06/23/11 10:52 AM
Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah	LexieBelle	06/23/11 11:23 AM
Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah	Debi	06/23/11 07:35 PM
Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah	LexieBelle	06/23/11 10:05 PM
Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah	SRS	06/24/11 05:45 AM
Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah	DedicatedDad	06/24/11 07:24 AM
Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah	SRS	06/23/11 08:07 PM
Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah	greeneyes	06/23/11 11:35 AM
Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah	gr8Dad	06/23/11 11:44 AM
Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah	NinaEll	06/23/11 02:55 PM
Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah	Maury	06/23/11 11:33 AM
Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah	Tweeby	06/22/11 09:33 AM
Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah	LexieBelle	06/22/11 10:06 AM
Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah	Tweeby	06/22/11 10:18 AM
Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah	LexieBelle	06/22/11 10:42 AM
Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah	Tweeby	06/22/11 10:54 AM
Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah	LexieBelle	06/22/11 11:04 AM
Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah	Tweeby	06/22/11 11:14 AM
Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah	NinaEll	06/20/11 06:37 PM
Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah	SRS	06/21/11 06:06 AM
Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah	Buckeye	06/21/11 06:10 AM
Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah	SRS	06/21/11 06:15 AM
Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah	NinaEll	06/21/11 11:10 AM
Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah	NinaEll	06/20/11 02:36 PM
Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah	NinaEll	06/20/11 02:53 PM
Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah	nursemom	06/22/11 01:09 PM
Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah	nursemom	06/19/11 05:46 AM
Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah	Tweeby	06/18/11 07:06 AM
Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah	Goodmom	06/18/11 06:45 AM
Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah	DedicatedDad	06/18/11 07:03 AM

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