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Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah
      06/21/11 05:55 AM

[quote]@Goodmom-"To be honest, it really isn't fair to expect her to share in the added cost that your choice made"---- Yes, this is a choice that we made to move that distance, but i will not be charging her to care for the kids, saving her the $400/mo that she has been paying for daycare. Even with the added gas $ she will be saving quite a bit not paying for childcare. I think having the option to keep the kids at home vs. sending them to daycare and having them in school close to the home adds at least a little more consistancy than what they have been through for the past 4 years. [/quote]

You are assuming a couple of things, one that a judge will keep the 50/50 with this change. S/he just may. But the judge may change the order on education which is likely given that the father chose to move so far away. The other is that the mother does not have to let you watch her kid during her parenting time and if she did, so what. It's still not fair to have her do any of the transportation because of the father's choice to move away. And it was a choice. The both of you could have rented while waiting for the short sale to close. Or you could have bought a house and renovated. Given that January was not that long ago, chances are her attorney is going to be able to make the argument that the father did not give full disclosure at the time of court about his intent to move so far away.

If there is neglect or abuse going on, the Father needs to discuss that with an attorney to see what his options are. You should stay out of it as you have no legal standing and may just aggravate the situation.

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* Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah NinaEll 06/18/11 02:01 AM
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. * * Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah Fishergirl   06/18/11 10:51 PM
. * * Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah gr8Dad   06/18/11 03:45 PM
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. * * Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah NinaEll   06/20/11 02:20 PM
. * * Re: Moving/School issues- 20 miles away in utah Goodmom   06/21/11 05:55 AM
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