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Re: shared parenting not working
      06/22/11 01:01 PM

Exactly if I am footing the bill then my rules will be followed, if they aren't then I will no longer foot the bill--- that is the consequence.

The CO is in effect until the child is 18 or graduates HS (I would assume). So there ARE consequences for not following the order, just as the 18 child, as an adult, will have consequences if they do not follow orders/rules as an adult. This 18 year old may see THIS situation as his way of calling the shots, BUT that will not work in college, as an employee, as a renter, as a homeowner, etc. Essentially every day we are teaching our children right from wrong, IRL this child will not be able to NOT follow rules/orders of LIFE without consequences. They are setting a bad example by allowing him to call the shots until that order is null in void.

Consequences for a 17 year old??? That is EASY- no driving. No teen wants to take the bus or have to WALK everywhere when they have a license to drive a vehicle.

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