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onmyown_36
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Trying to do right when ex isn't

06/30/11 10:47 AM

My ex and I recently finalized our divorce.(like 5 weeks ago)We were married for over 20 years and have young adult children and one preteen. The preteen lives with me and ex lives in another state. A large part of our breakup had to do with a woman ex cheated on me with. Now we are settled in our new lives and dd goes there for visitation. Well this “woman” using the term loosely, is still in the picture. She stays at exs house (not my problem) but does it when dd is there as well. They have gone on overnight vacations. This woman is still married and also has kids. My attorney says there is nothing I can do about it. Like others have said it is unenforceable. But as this young impressionable girls mother can’t I do something? I feel so helpless. DD knows they are together and knows the woman is married! She hasn’t made the connection yet that this woman was quite instrumental in our divorce. I think she has been told they were friends before this. I try to stay out of it because I know it is not part of my life/business anymore and I try not to get into conversations about it. But when your child comes in and says “Hey mom is Dads girlfriend still married?” You kind of have to discuss it. Real hard when you are trying to promote a healthy relationship between the child and the father. Because our divorce is so recent, our communication is still in a very fragile state.

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Trying to do right when ex isn't	onmyown_36	06/30/11 10:47 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	movingfwd999	07/04/11 04:08 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	KrazyKat	07/03/11 10:03 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	Goodmom	07/03/11 10:33 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	KrazyKat	07/05/11 07:26 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	Goodmom	07/05/11 08:11 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	LexieBelle	07/05/11 10:54 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	finz	07/06/11 01:37 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	LexieBelle	07/06/11 07:55 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	ssmom79	07/06/11 08:04 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	LexieBelle	07/06/11 02:08 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	finz	07/07/11 09:39 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	gr8Dad	07/07/11 10:01 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	LexieBelle	07/08/11 11:03 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	M5M5	07/07/11 10:27 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	finz	07/07/11 10:14 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	gr8Dad	07/07/11 10:21 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	finz	07/10/11 11:25 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	LexieBelle	07/08/11 10:54 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	DedicatedDad	07/07/11 11:00 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	DedicatedDad	07/08/11 10:15 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	gr8Dad	07/07/11 11:05 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	SRS	07/08/11 05:18 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	ssmom79	07/08/11 09:41 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	SRS	07/08/11 09:51 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	KrazyKat	07/08/11 10:42 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	SRS	07/09/11 07:27 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	KrazyKat	07/09/11 09:58 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	SRS	07/09/11 10:19 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	gr8Dad	07/09/11 11:27 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	SRS	07/11/11 06:07 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	finz	07/10/11 11:08 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	gr8Dad	07/08/11 01:51 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	onerose	07/08/11 12:29 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	Sherron	07/07/11 11:34 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	gr8Dad	07/07/11 11:36 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	Sherron	07/07/11 11:38 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	LexieBelle	07/06/11 02:07 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	LexieBelle	07/04/11 09:04 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	Goodmom	07/05/11 08:08 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	gr8Dad	07/03/11 11:29 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	Avaya	07/05/11 09:00 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	KrazyKat	07/05/11 07:31 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	Goodmom	07/05/11 08:09 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	Goodmom	07/04/11 05:56 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	Avaya	07/01/11 10:00 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	Goodmom	06/30/11 07:08 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	gr8Dad	06/30/11 12:34 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	Goodmom	06/30/11 07:07 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	gr8Dad	06/30/11 07:18 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	Avaya	07/01/11 10:03 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	gr8Dad	07/01/11 11:15 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	Goodmom	06/30/11 07:47 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	onmyown_36	06/30/11 08:37 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	gr8Dad	06/30/11 11:11 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	SRS	07/01/11 08:54 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	LexieBelle	07/01/11 09:26 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	SRS	07/01/11 09:35 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	LexieBelle	07/01/11 09:51 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	onmyown_36	07/01/11 10:08 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	LexieBelle	07/01/11 10:37 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	DedicatedDad	07/01/11 07:47 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	SRS	07/01/11 07:54 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	ssmom79	07/01/11 10:19 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	SRS	07/01/11 10:03 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	gr8Dad	07/01/11 11:14 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	AngelBaby	07/12/11 05:52 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	gr8Dad	07/12/11 10:39 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	Tweeby	07/12/11 02:59 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	SRS	07/01/11 11:34 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	gr8Dad	07/01/11 12:30 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	SRS	07/01/11 12:39 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	gr8Dad	07/01/11 12:57 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	SRS	07/01/11 01:10 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	onmyown_36	07/01/11 07:22 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	gr8Dad	07/01/11 08:12 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	SRS	07/01/11 07:46 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	LexieBelle	07/01/11 10:30 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	SRS	07/01/11 10:51 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	onmyown_36	07/01/11 11:02 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	Sherron	07/01/11 11:12 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	ssmom79	07/01/11 11:10 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	ssmom79	07/01/11 10:45 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	SRS	06/30/11 09:44 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	onmyown_36	06/30/11 07:38 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	SRS	06/30/11 01:01 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	onmyown_36	06/30/11 02:56 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	onmyown_36	06/30/11 03:01 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	gr8Dad	06/30/11 07:00 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	ssmom79	06/30/11 04:08 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	SRS	06/30/11 03:12 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	LexieBelle	06/30/11 02:54 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	SRS	06/30/11 11:03 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	ssmom79	06/30/11 11:43 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	onmyown_36	06/30/11 11:19 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	SRS	06/30/11 11:27 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	onmyown_36	06/30/11 11:30 AM

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