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LexieBelle
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Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't

06/30/11 02:54 PM

She "can"; however, it's a pretty big red, flag as to HER issues, and far less about her EX'S issues. Which, in reality, he's MOVING ON! Which, in reality, is WHY people get divorced so they CAN move on. And, if she's been around for year, she's hardly a "fling".

For the OP, when (if) the child asks, I'd simply answer "I don't know.. it's none of my concern and it's certainly not any of YOUR concern". They are a CHILD and that is ADULT business. Also, I deal with this with my ex and his first wife. Who has been with the same guy she cheated on my ex with when they were married. He, as far as I know (and ex knows), is still married. They have a subsequent child together. They don't live together, etc so forth. Dd knows her half-sister has a half-brother. She knows she and her half-sister have different mothers. She knows the half-brother isn't daddy's. He's got his OWN daddy, who has OTHER children. THAT dad's marital status? None of my business really and it's not my daughter's and yes, she's asked and that's exactly what I told her. And, reiterated it was none of MY business either.

Children will SENSE an adult vibe. One doesn't have to SAY anything. Body language, facial expression.. will say it all. The hostility of the language used here, I have no doubt, transfers SOMEHOW into real life.

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Subject	Posted by	Posted on
Trying to do right when ex isn't	onmyown_36	06/30/11 10:47 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	movingfwd999	07/04/11 04:08 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	KrazyKat	07/03/11 10:03 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	Goodmom	07/03/11 10:33 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	KrazyKat	07/05/11 07:26 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	Goodmom	07/05/11 08:11 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	LexieBelle	07/05/11 10:54 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	finz	07/06/11 01:37 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	LexieBelle	07/06/11 07:55 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	ssmom79	07/06/11 08:04 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	LexieBelle	07/06/11 02:08 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	finz	07/07/11 09:39 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	gr8Dad	07/07/11 10:01 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	LexieBelle	07/08/11 11:03 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	M5M5	07/07/11 10:27 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	finz	07/07/11 10:14 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	gr8Dad	07/07/11 10:21 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	finz	07/10/11 11:25 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	LexieBelle	07/08/11 10:54 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	DedicatedDad	07/07/11 11:00 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	DedicatedDad	07/08/11 10:15 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	gr8Dad	07/07/11 11:05 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	SRS	07/08/11 05:18 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	ssmom79	07/08/11 09:41 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	SRS	07/08/11 09:51 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	KrazyKat	07/08/11 10:42 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	SRS	07/09/11 07:27 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	KrazyKat	07/09/11 09:58 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	SRS	07/09/11 10:19 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	gr8Dad	07/09/11 11:27 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	SRS	07/11/11 06:07 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	finz	07/10/11 11:08 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	gr8Dad	07/08/11 01:51 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	onerose	07/08/11 12:29 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	Sherron	07/07/11 11:34 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	gr8Dad	07/07/11 11:36 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	Sherron	07/07/11 11:38 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	LexieBelle	07/06/11 02:07 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	LexieBelle	07/04/11 09:04 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	Goodmom	07/05/11 08:08 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	gr8Dad	07/03/11 11:29 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	Avaya	07/05/11 09:00 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	KrazyKat	07/05/11 07:31 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	Goodmom	07/05/11 08:09 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	Goodmom	07/04/11 05:56 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	Avaya	07/01/11 10:00 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	Goodmom	06/30/11 07:08 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	gr8Dad	06/30/11 12:34 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	Goodmom	06/30/11 07:07 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	gr8Dad	06/30/11 07:18 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	Avaya	07/01/11 10:03 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	gr8Dad	07/01/11 11:15 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	Goodmom	06/30/11 07:47 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	onmyown_36	06/30/11 08:37 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	gr8Dad	06/30/11 11:11 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	SRS	07/01/11 08:54 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	LexieBelle	07/01/11 09:26 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	SRS	07/01/11 09:35 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	LexieBelle	07/01/11 09:51 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	onmyown_36	07/01/11 10:08 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	LexieBelle	07/01/11 10:37 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	DedicatedDad	07/01/11 07:47 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	SRS	07/01/11 07:54 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	ssmom79	07/01/11 10:19 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	SRS	07/01/11 10:03 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	gr8Dad	07/01/11 11:14 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	AngelBaby	07/12/11 05:52 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	gr8Dad	07/12/11 10:39 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	Tweeby	07/12/11 02:59 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	SRS	07/01/11 11:34 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	gr8Dad	07/01/11 12:30 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	SRS	07/01/11 12:39 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	gr8Dad	07/01/11 12:57 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	SRS	07/01/11 01:10 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	onmyown_36	07/01/11 07:22 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	gr8Dad	07/01/11 08:12 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	SRS	07/01/11 07:46 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	LexieBelle	07/01/11 10:30 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	SRS	07/01/11 10:51 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	onmyown_36	07/01/11 11:02 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	Sherron	07/01/11 11:12 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	ssmom79	07/01/11 11:10 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	ssmom79	07/01/11 10:45 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	SRS	06/30/11 09:44 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	onmyown_36	06/30/11 07:38 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	SRS	06/30/11 01:01 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	onmyown_36	06/30/11 02:56 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	onmyown_36	06/30/11 03:01 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	gr8Dad	06/30/11 07:00 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	ssmom79	06/30/11 04:08 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	SRS	06/30/11 03:12 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	LexieBelle	06/30/11 02:54 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	SRS	06/30/11 11:03 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	ssmom79	06/30/11 11:43 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	onmyown_36	06/30/11 11:19 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	SRS	06/30/11 11:27 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	onmyown_36	06/30/11 11:30 AM

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