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january1975
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request for modification
      06/30/11 11:38 PM

Divrce final in 2000: children are nw 14 and 16: ex was served a summons to submit financials.
I knw his incme has increased alot, he wrks in the oil field overseas..(nigeria)
In all these years I've never asked for a review for a number of reasons.
(He's verbally abusive and I always end up feeling worthless after any convos about money.)
Anyway..going thru a rough patch financially and requested a review and of course the poop hit the fan!!
I have no idea how much he makes and honestly...I don't care.
We share custody and he has access to his children at all times. They do spend a majority of their time with him when he is home for his 23 day rotation.
Here is my situation:
Received a phone call from him telling me he just left his lawyer. Either we can go to court and HE will have to spend alot of money on a lawyer...or I can give him a number of how much more money I want a month. We can then negotiate from there.
I think he wants to avoid giving up his financials..I recently found out he has bought several townhomes and was even more upset I found out.
He also has a vacation home out of state that he goes to every weekend. I just want what is fair for my kids.

Just curious what you would do in my situation.

He currently pays 750.00
I have primary custody

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* request for modification january1975 06/30/11 11:38 PM
. * * Re: request for modification cincsu   07/18/11 05:27 PM
. * * Re: request for modification Cassie23   07/09/11 10:50 AM
. * * Re: request for modification sussann   07/09/11 12:38 PM
. * * Re: request for modification SRS   07/17/11 09:04 AM
. * * Re: request for modification january1975   07/19/11 06:01 PM
. * * Re: request for modification gr8Dad   07/19/11 06:13 PM
. * * Re: request for modification january1975   07/19/11 07:19 PM
. * * Re: request for modification cincsu   07/20/11 01:08 AM
. * * Re: request for modification gr8Dad   07/19/11 07:29 PM
. * * Re: request for modification january1975   07/19/11 07:52 PM
. * * Re: request for modification Sherron   07/19/11 08:04 PM
. * * Re: request for modification january1975   07/19/11 08:19 PM
. * * Re: request for modification DedicatedDad   07/20/11 06:50 AM
. * * Re: request for modification gr8Dad   07/19/11 08:29 PM
. * * Re: request for modification january1975   07/19/11 08:38 PM
. * * Re: request for modification Sherron   07/19/11 08:49 PM
. * * Re: request for modification ssmom79   07/01/11 10:31 AM
. * * Re: request for modification SRS   07/01/11 11:04 AM
. * * Re: request for modification hanzblinx   07/07/11 02:48 PM
. * * Re: request for modification Avaya   07/01/11 09:56 AM
. * * Re: request for modification Goodmom   07/01/11 06:59 AM
. * * Re: request for modification DedicatedDad   07/01/11 06:30 AM

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