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Re: Would like to get some input...
07/04/11 01:05 PM
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Walkd2,
Your husband has big problems with money. You did not cause him to spend foolishly and rack up the credit cards. His actions show complete disregard not only to you, but to his children and their welfare. This is NOT how a normal, responsible person behaves.
The fact that there really does not seem to be a marriage between you is another hurdle. I would say he is passive aggressive, and IF he is, then my advice to you would be to get out of the marriage as soon as possible, or you will spend the rest of your life in a sexless, joyless, and debted union.
This is really a question of what you want to do with the rest of your life and how you want to live it. Many times with counceling, a person changes, but only for a few weeks or months....then they regress back to their old ways.
If you truly believe your life with him is worth saving the marriage, then do all you can to make it work. But, if your heart says it will be years before you can truly have a good marriage, it may be wise to start to live the life you want.
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