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LexieBelle
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Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't

07/06/11 07:55 AM

No, we got that point just fine.. the point was the definition of "stepmom" isn't necessarily ONLY limited to a legal definition.

I wasn't married to exSO, but he certainly acted in the capacity of a step, and his loss to my daughter, over time, is certainly at the level of losing an actual parent, not even a step. He wasn't "legally" ANYTHING but he certainly had that "role".

I will say that my former stepdaughter's brother's father ALSO has that role and they? Don't even LIVE together. And, as far as I know, he is STILL MARRIED to her half-brother's half-sibling's mother. He is listed as emergency contact for her for school, she stays there very often without her mother. From the conversation I overheard in the halls of court when she called HIM (the married guy) and NOT her mother, NOT her father and went over her day with him apparently. He has had that role now for... nearly 9 years? He is her "stepfather", no question. And they don't even cohabitate.

THAT was the point being missed.

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Trying to do right when ex isn't	onmyown_36	06/30/11 10:47 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	movingfwd999	07/04/11 04:08 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	KrazyKat	07/03/11 10:03 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	Goodmom	07/03/11 10:33 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	KrazyKat	07/05/11 07:26 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	Goodmom	07/05/11 08:11 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	LexieBelle	07/05/11 10:54 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	finz	07/06/11 01:37 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	LexieBelle	07/06/11 07:55 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	ssmom79	07/06/11 08:04 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	LexieBelle	07/06/11 02:08 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	finz	07/07/11 09:39 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	gr8Dad	07/07/11 10:01 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	LexieBelle	07/08/11 11:03 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	M5M5	07/07/11 10:27 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	finz	07/07/11 10:14 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	gr8Dad	07/07/11 10:21 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	finz	07/10/11 11:25 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	LexieBelle	07/08/11 10:54 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	DedicatedDad	07/07/11 11:00 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	DedicatedDad	07/08/11 10:15 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	gr8Dad	07/07/11 11:05 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	SRS	07/08/11 05:18 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	ssmom79	07/08/11 09:41 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	SRS	07/08/11 09:51 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	KrazyKat	07/08/11 10:42 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	SRS	07/09/11 07:27 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	KrazyKat	07/09/11 09:58 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	SRS	07/09/11 10:19 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	gr8Dad	07/09/11 11:27 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	SRS	07/11/11 06:07 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	finz	07/10/11 11:08 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	gr8Dad	07/08/11 01:51 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	onerose	07/08/11 12:29 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	Sherron	07/07/11 11:34 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	gr8Dad	07/07/11 11:36 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	Sherron	07/07/11 11:38 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	LexieBelle	07/06/11 02:07 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	LexieBelle	07/04/11 09:04 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	Goodmom	07/05/11 08:08 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	gr8Dad	07/03/11 11:29 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	Avaya	07/05/11 09:00 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	KrazyKat	07/05/11 07:31 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	Goodmom	07/05/11 08:09 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	Goodmom	07/04/11 05:56 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	Avaya	07/01/11 10:00 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	Goodmom	06/30/11 07:08 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	gr8Dad	06/30/11 12:34 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	Goodmom	06/30/11 07:07 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	gr8Dad	06/30/11 07:18 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	Avaya	07/01/11 10:03 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	gr8Dad	07/01/11 11:15 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	Goodmom	06/30/11 07:47 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	onmyown_36	06/30/11 08:37 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	gr8Dad	06/30/11 11:11 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	SRS	07/01/11 08:54 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	LexieBelle	07/01/11 09:26 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	SRS	07/01/11 09:35 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	LexieBelle	07/01/11 09:51 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	onmyown_36	07/01/11 10:08 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	LexieBelle	07/01/11 10:37 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	DedicatedDad	07/01/11 07:47 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	SRS	07/01/11 07:54 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	ssmom79	07/01/11 10:19 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	SRS	07/01/11 10:03 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	gr8Dad	07/01/11 11:14 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	AngelBaby	07/12/11 05:52 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	gr8Dad	07/12/11 10:39 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	Tweeby	07/12/11 02:59 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	SRS	07/01/11 11:34 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	gr8Dad	07/01/11 12:30 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	SRS	07/01/11 12:39 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	gr8Dad	07/01/11 12:57 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	SRS	07/01/11 01:10 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	onmyown_36	07/01/11 07:22 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	gr8Dad	07/01/11 08:12 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	SRS	07/01/11 07:46 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	LexieBelle	07/01/11 10:30 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	SRS	07/01/11 10:51 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	onmyown_36	07/01/11 11:02 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	Sherron	07/01/11 11:12 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	ssmom79	07/01/11 11:10 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	ssmom79	07/01/11 10:45 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	SRS	06/30/11 09:44 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	onmyown_36	06/30/11 07:38 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	SRS	06/30/11 01:01 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	onmyown_36	06/30/11 02:56 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	onmyown_36	06/30/11 03:01 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	gr8Dad	06/30/11 07:00 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	ssmom79	06/30/11 04:08 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	SRS	06/30/11 03:12 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	LexieBelle	06/30/11 02:54 PM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	SRS	06/30/11 11:03 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	ssmom79	06/30/11 11:43 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	onmyown_36	06/30/11 11:19 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	SRS	06/30/11 11:27 AM
Re: Trying to do right when ex isn't	onmyown_36	06/30/11 11:30 AM

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