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Debi
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Re: nothing can be done?

07/08/11 07:01 AM

That's a tough one. When she dropped her off while she was at work did you then have your daughter all night or did she pick her up after work? I don't think you are going to get a custody change if the reason for all the extra time was her work schedule alone. Most parents would be happy to have the child rather than have her go to daycare or a babysitter or worse yet just with random people. You are going to have a hard time proving that she's irresponsible if she brought the child to dad while she was earning a paycheck. You made it sound in your original post that she just didn't want her around.

I get being frustrated with the moves and the extra people that are being brought into your child's life. While the way your x is living is not what I would choose to do I don't think you are going to be able to change custody at this time. She really doesn't have to let you meet her boyfriend or tell you anything about him. She more than likely does have to inform you of any moves. It sounds as if you reminding her of that will remedy that situatiuon. You could still attempt to file for full placememnt but consider this. If you blind side her with that she may NOT bring your daughter to you while she works and then you won't know who is watching her. She may decide if doing the responsible thing is going to cause you to go after her that she will not allow you access to the child during her parenting time. You should probably weigh the pros and cons.

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nothing can be done?	SamsDad	07/07/11 06:00 PM
Re: nothing can be done?	ssmom79	07/08/11 09:35 AM
Re: nothing can be done?	SamsDad	07/08/11 11:01 AM
Re: nothing can be done?	ssmom79	07/08/11 11:47 AM
Re: nothing can be done?	Debi	07/08/11 01:32 PM
Re: nothing can be done?	ssmom79	07/10/11 04:57 PM
Re: nothing can be done?	SamsDad	07/12/11 06:41 PM
Re: nothing can be done?	Debi	07/12/11 07:27 PM
Re: nothing can be done?	Buckeye	07/13/11 06:26 AM
Re: nothing can be done?	SamsDad	07/08/11 01:25 PM
Re: nothing can be done?	Debi	07/07/11 09:52 PM
Re: nothing can be done?	SamsDad	07/07/11 11:32 PM
Re: nothing can be done?	Debi	07/08/11 01:30 PM
Re: nothing can be done?	annatof4	07/13/11 02:38 PM
Re: nothing can be done?	SamsDad	07/13/11 06:47 PM
Re: nothing can be done?	annatof4	07/14/11 09:37 AM
Re: nothing can be done?	SamsDad	07/14/11 05:56 PM
Re: nothing can be done?	annatof4	07/15/11 07:41 AM
Re: nothing can be done?	SamsDad	07/08/11 02:56 PM
Re: nothing can be done?	Debi	07/08/11 04:36 PM
Re: nothing can be done?	SamsDad	07/08/11 04:42 PM
Re: nothing can be done?	Debi	07/08/11 07:47 PM
Re: nothing can be done?	Debi	07/08/11 07:01 AM
Re: nothing can be done?	SamsDad	07/07/11 06:04 PM

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