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Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem
      07/12/11 08:10 AM

First, if bio-mom doesn't like it, then you have hit a wall. The decisions are split 50/50 and without a court getting involved the short is he should stay where he is.

Second, I think if your SS is disruptive to the point of being dismissed from class and nearly failing a grade, maybe there is more work to be done in the home with choices and consequences. I am not being critical of what you in the home because I don't know but my first thought is when we had trouble in school with my ADHD SS consequences following him home really led to a turnaround. He is 17 now, in 11th grade and doing so well.

I've done virtual school which is possibly the same or similar to cyber school. My hubby and I have 50/50 shared visitation of my SK's and she did public school and virtual school to make up a first grade at the same time. She prefers regular school after completing it because of the lack of social involvement in virtual school. There were some discussions and live chats but mostly a girl alone in a room on a computer. She is very social.

Would a summer cyber class be available so bio-mom could get to know more about the program and maybe ease her fears should you decide to pursue that route? Perhaps a short summer term would help her in her decision.

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