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MrsB
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Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem
      07/12/11 08:15 AM

"But refuses to work for it".

I gotta say I have an issue with this statement. I also have an issue with you referring to your stepson as "my son" - and honestly I am usually not bothered by involved stepparents as my husband is one. But I also believe the bioparent should have the primary role in parenting as it is their child. My son's father isn't very involved but he's still his father. Maybe I'm just cranky this morning but I found your post very much about you - amd everything you do for your stepson. What does his dad do for him?

Why does your husband have custody?

I'm sure it may be difficult for BM to come to term with her son's ADHD if she doesn't see him every day and see what he struggles with. I wonder if your husband may try a different approach and contact her directly instead of having you do it? Does your husband not involve himself in his son's activities and schoolwork?

Lastly - whether or not you agree, your hubamd and BM have 50/50 decision making power. If your husband truly feels changing school would be in his son's best interest he needs to consult with BM more about it and possibly an attorney if it needs to go that far.

Edited by MrsB (07/12/11 08:19 AM)

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