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Debi
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Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem

07/12/11 07:19 PM

Your H "could" get a lawyer involved BUT that opens the door for mom to request a change in custody also. Considering that your H has pretty much turned over responsibility of the child to you and you have gone behind her back and made a choice in changing schools BEFORE involving her it may not bode well for him. No the courts will not change legal custody to 49/51. It's shared legal custody or sole legal custody and given that the co-parenting is already not happening from dad I doubt the courts will award him sole custody just so you can have even more control.

ADHD is used as an excuse for bad behavior far too often by people who do not want to actually teach their children how to act. I have a bi-polar child (who is now at teen, soon to be at the age of majority) and believe me she does NOT get to use it as an excuse. I've had the police put her in handcuffs more than once. You want to fly off the handle or cause a disturbance then you learn to live with the consequences. Waht makes you think that simply removing him from school is going to be the answer? There is way more to it than that.

What does his counselor say about online school? Maybe he needs a change in meds or if he hasn't been on them long needs time to adjust. Personally I think taking away all social aspects of school is going to do more harm than good.

She has a right to be upset with the way things were handled and it sounds as if she's right that her opinions were not taking into consideration. Stop and walk in her shoes. Put your H in the place of the NCP who is "told" what is going to be done with a child that's half his. How well would HE take it? of course she wants him to have a normal childhood. Who doesn't want that for their child?

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50/50 split legal custody mayhem	AngelBaby	07/12/11 05:20 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	cincsu	07/18/11 06:02 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	gr8Dad	07/14/11 03:04 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	finz	07/15/11 02:34 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	gr8Dad	07/15/11 12:21 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	Debi	07/14/11 09:23 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	finz	07/15/11 03:12 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	gr8Dad	07/14/11 10:01 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	MrsB	07/14/11 08:58 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	annatof4	07/14/11 09:11 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	Tweeby	07/14/11 10:18 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	SRS	07/14/11 05:58 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	gr8Dad	07/14/11 11:12 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	annatof4	07/14/11 11:56 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	gr8Dad	07/14/11 03:54 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	annatof4	07/15/11 07:06 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	gr8Dad	07/15/11 12:28 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	finz	07/15/11 02:59 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	gr8Dad	07/15/11 12:29 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	LexieBelle	07/15/11 12:48 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	gr8Dad	07/15/11 01:04 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	LexieBelle	07/15/11 01:09 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	finz	07/18/11 04:31 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	MrsB	07/18/11 09:51 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	LexieBelle	07/18/11 08:26 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	LexieBelle	07/18/11 06:08 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	annatof4	07/15/11 03:30 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	MrsB	07/15/11 06:17 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	gr8Dad	07/15/11 04:43 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	annatof4	07/15/11 05:42 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	gr8Dad	07/15/11 08:40 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	annatof4	07/15/11 09:34 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	gr8Dad	07/15/11 11:04 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	annatof4	07/16/11 07:47 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	LexieBelle	07/16/11 08:33 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	SweetLight	07/17/11 11:41 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	annatof4	07/16/11 10:05 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	gr8Dad	07/16/11 10:21 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	annatof4	07/17/11 08:03 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	SRS	07/17/11 08:27 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	gr8Dad	07/17/11 08:10 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	annatof4	07/17/11 08:37 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	annatof4	07/17/11 08:43 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	finz	07/15/11 02:56 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	ssmom79	07/14/11 04:20 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	finz	07/15/11 03:03 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	Sherron	07/14/11 05:40 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	ssmom79	07/14/11 06:52 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	javajunkiee	07/14/11 07:13 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	Sherron	07/14/11 11:24 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	ssmom79	07/14/11 11:32 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	finz	07/15/11 02:52 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	greeneyes	07/14/11 08:23 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	ssmom79	07/14/11 08:34 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	greeneyes	07/14/11 10:06 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	ssmom79	07/14/11 10:46 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	ssmom79	07/14/11 08:35 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	Sherron	07/14/11 08:41 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	ssmom79	07/14/11 10:44 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	finz	07/14/11 01:48 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	Debi	07/12/11 07:19 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	c_jane	07/12/11 08:32 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	annatof4	07/13/11 01:42 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	gr8Dad	07/12/11 09:23 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	Tweeby	07/12/11 09:36 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	SamsDad	07/12/11 06:58 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	ssmom79	07/12/11 08:10 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	Goodmom	07/12/11 05:33 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	AngelBaby	07/12/11 06:00 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	Goodmom	07/14/11 04:43 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	ssmom79	07/12/11 08:42 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	MrsB	07/12/11 08:15 AM

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