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annatof4
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Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem

07/13/11 01:42 PM

I agree with the jest of others' opinions that have posted. You are not the parent and therefore your thoughts or opinions of what schooling the child receives might be appreciative, but, it is not your call.

I agree with SamsDad, the mother could have felt that you cornered her into this. You could have approached her with it and met with the school together. That way she doesnt feel like you are replacing her....which to me, it does sound that way. You may love that child, you may want the best for that child, but you are not the mother. You may be stepping up to the plate to be a parenting role to the child....but, that is your decision. Let the parents take a swing.

I do understand that being a step parent is difficult, I am one. Along with being a parent. However, you need to set your role. You need to decide what you can handle. If it is too much for you to grasp that either one of the bio parents dont agree with you...and you have no leg to stand on? It might be best for you to step down and let Dad be the Dad.

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50/50 split legal custody mayhem	AngelBaby	07/12/11 05:20 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	cincsu	07/18/11 06:02 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	gr8Dad	07/14/11 03:04 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	finz	07/15/11 02:34 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	gr8Dad	07/15/11 12:21 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	Debi	07/14/11 09:23 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	finz	07/15/11 03:12 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	gr8Dad	07/14/11 10:01 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	MrsB	07/14/11 08:58 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	annatof4	07/14/11 09:11 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	Tweeby	07/14/11 10:18 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	SRS	07/14/11 05:58 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	gr8Dad	07/14/11 11:12 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	annatof4	07/14/11 11:56 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	gr8Dad	07/14/11 03:54 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	annatof4	07/15/11 07:06 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	gr8Dad	07/15/11 12:28 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	finz	07/15/11 02:59 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	gr8Dad	07/15/11 12:29 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	LexieBelle	07/15/11 12:48 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	gr8Dad	07/15/11 01:04 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	LexieBelle	07/15/11 01:09 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	finz	07/18/11 04:31 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	MrsB	07/18/11 09:51 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	LexieBelle	07/18/11 08:26 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	LexieBelle	07/18/11 06:08 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	annatof4	07/15/11 03:30 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	MrsB	07/15/11 06:17 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	gr8Dad	07/15/11 04:43 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	annatof4	07/15/11 05:42 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	gr8Dad	07/15/11 08:40 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	annatof4	07/15/11 09:34 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	gr8Dad	07/15/11 11:04 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	annatof4	07/16/11 07:47 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	LexieBelle	07/16/11 08:33 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	SweetLight	07/17/11 11:41 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	annatof4	07/16/11 10:05 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	gr8Dad	07/16/11 10:21 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	annatof4	07/17/11 08:03 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	SRS	07/17/11 08:27 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	gr8Dad	07/17/11 08:10 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	annatof4	07/17/11 08:37 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	annatof4	07/17/11 08:43 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	finz	07/15/11 02:56 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	ssmom79	07/14/11 04:20 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	finz	07/15/11 03:03 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	Sherron	07/14/11 05:40 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	ssmom79	07/14/11 06:52 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	javajunkiee	07/14/11 07:13 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	Sherron	07/14/11 11:24 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	ssmom79	07/14/11 11:32 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	finz	07/15/11 02:52 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	greeneyes	07/14/11 08:23 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	ssmom79	07/14/11 08:34 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	greeneyes	07/14/11 10:06 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	ssmom79	07/14/11 10:46 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	ssmom79	07/14/11 08:35 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	Sherron	07/14/11 08:41 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	ssmom79	07/14/11 10:44 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	finz	07/14/11 01:48 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	Debi	07/12/11 07:19 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	c_jane	07/12/11 08:32 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	annatof4	07/13/11 01:42 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	gr8Dad	07/12/11 09:23 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	Tweeby	07/12/11 09:36 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	SamsDad	07/12/11 06:58 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	ssmom79	07/12/11 08:10 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	Goodmom	07/12/11 05:33 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	AngelBaby	07/12/11 06:00 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	Goodmom	07/14/11 04:43 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	ssmom79	07/12/11 08:42 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	MrsB	07/12/11 08:15 AM

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