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Debi
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Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem

07/14/11 09:23 PM

"What you have on here is a lot of MOSTLY women who are REALLY insecure about their place in their chaildren's lives, and are scared that SOMEONE ELSE will get the "Mom" title. "

Not at all. My kids have an awesome SM. She and I are even friends, but the "mom/dad" title is something my x and I agreed from the moment of our dvorce would be reserved only for us. Does she introduce them as "our" kids when she runs into someone she and x know? Sure, and it doesn't bother me in the least BUT if she went to school or the Dr and introduced herslf as their mother I'd be livid.

My SO was showing his BIL our new house and one of the neighbors came over and introduced herself and asked if he had kids. He said "yes", not "my SO has kids" (Which was another story because at that time no one in his family knew about us being together so he had some explaining to do to his BIL. LOL) BUT the kids don't call him dad. even my 3yo calls him by his name. She only calls her father "dad" and that's the way it will stay.

So yeah, I have an issue when any over bearing woman comes on the board and starts spouting off about "our child" or "my child". (I can't recall a man doing it) We all know there are 2 sides to every story and the bio-parent who isn't on the board is not always as bad as the one posting wants us to think.

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When we were together, you said you'd die for me. Now, I think it's time you kept your promise.

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50/50 split legal custody mayhem	AngelBaby	07/12/11 05:20 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	cincsu	07/18/11 06:02 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	gr8Dad	07/14/11 03:04 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	finz	07/15/11 02:34 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	gr8Dad	07/15/11 12:21 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	Debi	07/14/11 09:23 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	finz	07/15/11 03:12 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	gr8Dad	07/14/11 10:01 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	MrsB	07/14/11 08:58 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	annatof4	07/14/11 09:11 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	Tweeby	07/14/11 10:18 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	SRS	07/14/11 05:58 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	gr8Dad	07/14/11 11:12 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	annatof4	07/14/11 11:56 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	gr8Dad	07/14/11 03:54 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	annatof4	07/15/11 07:06 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	gr8Dad	07/15/11 12:28 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	finz	07/15/11 02:59 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	gr8Dad	07/15/11 12:29 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	LexieBelle	07/15/11 12:48 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	gr8Dad	07/15/11 01:04 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	LexieBelle	07/15/11 01:09 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	finz	07/18/11 04:31 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	MrsB	07/18/11 09:51 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	LexieBelle	07/18/11 08:26 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	LexieBelle	07/18/11 06:08 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	annatof4	07/15/11 03:30 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	MrsB	07/15/11 06:17 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	gr8Dad	07/15/11 04:43 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	annatof4	07/15/11 05:42 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	gr8Dad	07/15/11 08:40 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	annatof4	07/15/11 09:34 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	gr8Dad	07/15/11 11:04 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	annatof4	07/16/11 07:47 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	LexieBelle	07/16/11 08:33 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	SweetLight	07/17/11 11:41 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	annatof4	07/16/11 10:05 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	gr8Dad	07/16/11 10:21 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	annatof4	07/17/11 08:03 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	SRS	07/17/11 08:27 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	gr8Dad	07/17/11 08:10 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	annatof4	07/17/11 08:37 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	annatof4	07/17/11 08:43 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	finz	07/15/11 02:56 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	ssmom79	07/14/11 04:20 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	finz	07/15/11 03:03 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	Sherron	07/14/11 05:40 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	ssmom79	07/14/11 06:52 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	javajunkiee	07/14/11 07:13 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	Sherron	07/14/11 11:24 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	ssmom79	07/14/11 11:32 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	finz	07/15/11 02:52 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	greeneyes	07/14/11 08:23 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	ssmom79	07/14/11 08:34 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	greeneyes	07/14/11 10:06 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	ssmom79	07/14/11 10:46 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	ssmom79	07/14/11 08:35 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	Sherron	07/14/11 08:41 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	ssmom79	07/14/11 10:44 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	finz	07/14/11 01:48 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	Debi	07/12/11 07:19 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	c_jane	07/12/11 08:32 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	annatof4	07/13/11 01:42 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	gr8Dad	07/12/11 09:23 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	Tweeby	07/12/11 09:36 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	SamsDad	07/12/11 06:58 PM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	ssmom79	07/12/11 08:10 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	Goodmom	07/12/11 05:33 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	AngelBaby	07/12/11 06:00 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	Goodmom	07/14/11 04:43 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	ssmom79	07/12/11 08:42 AM
Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem	MrsB	07/12/11 08:15 AM

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