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Re: I just need wise words
      07/15/11 04:05 PM

The path to healing is long and arduous. You HAVE to go through all the steps and stages of grief. If you try to skip one, it will come up later.

Allow yourself the meltdown, the tears and anger. Then get up and put your big girl panties on and move on to the rest of your day. The easiest way to do that is to live in faith..."Everything happens for a reason". Say it over and over each day. One day, you will wake up and know why and be done with every negative emotion from it all. Look inward, not outward. It is the journey not the destination.

(I pray and meditate personally. I also took a 4 week trip to a small desert town and reflected on 16 years of 'falsehood' and then came back different and quit my job, moved, started a new career, and found myself a nice boy-toy. We shared 3 months, then I moved on again in my journey to the re-discovered me.)

I have found success in my new career he forbade me from working in. Bought a home in the snobby 'hood where he never would have let us live. And have found a caring, loving man to spend my time with, but he has his own home, because I am not done growing yet.)

Good luck on your journey.

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* I just need wise words authenticj 03/05/11 07:59 AM
. * * Re: I just need wise words dobralov   04/01/12 07:23 AM
. * * Re: I just need wise words Move forward... Annie7676   11/18/11 04:11 PM
. * * Re: I just need wise words lauramc27   03/05/11 09:38 PM
. * * Re: I just need wise words stillsuffering   03/22/11 02:19 AM
. * * Re: I just need wise words courage   04/11/11 04:38 PM
. * * Re: I just need wise words Debbs_Seattle   07/15/11 04:05 PM
. * * Re: I just need wise words homebody1973   11/17/11 10:17 PM

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