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Re: 50/50 split legal custody mayhem
      07/16/11 07:47 AM

FYI, she has NEVER made a statement that she was the step parent. If that role was clear from the get go, she would not have had my response along with others.

PLEASE go back and read her post outside of your box and your opinion for 1 second. I have. I do see a concerned step parent, but that is my interpretation. As the just of her post is due to the disagreement that her opinion is not shared with the bio mother and the frustration of that. Now with my interpretation of her words, my opinion develops.

After you have done that, is it past identifying? Yes, with even the issue in general. Having a problem because the bio mother does not agree with what the step mother has presented to her?? These are the words...not my interpretation. A step parent going as far as to ask if a change of custody could happen? Does that really NOT cross the line?

In these type of situations, you do have to put the shoes on in the posters dilemma. So, lets say that the roles are reversed. It is a step father, referring to YOUR custody and YOUR children as his. Approaches you with cyber schooling and telling you that he has gone to the school with the child and the child is very excited about it. You take the approach as this bio mother and get upset (IMO, rightly so) and the step father decides to post on a forum of the issue and asks whether the step father and the ex wife can change YOUR custody that has already been set....

The opinions of women on this thread are reacting to that this would greatly upset them. If the posters dilemma was as stated above in my role reversed example, men may have the same reaction as women have. At my very first response to you, I stated that I will defend either title, mother or father.

And I have dared to disagree with you on your comments/opinion. Most of my reaction towards you is your comment of "insecure".

I too have been in a lot of roles related to divorce and family law. Both parent and step parent, NCP and CP, have gone through EVERY type of counseling, gone through parenting time and custody battles, been the victim of abuse, deal with other step parents, every service offered through the courts and I am about to start my 2nd year in law school, specifically to practice in Family Law. Does this all make my opinion any more or less valid than anyone else? No, I really wouldnt think so.

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